Orgasam Denial

[faulkner200]

Just curious if any mums here have tried orgasam denial?

Other half was fed up of my daily wanking and incosideration towards her in bed.

She suggested that I didnt wank and we just focussed on her for a week.

Shes had plenty of pleasure now 5 days in but I havent orgasamed myself , she said shes really enjoying the control.

Is this a common thing ? Its arousing but is it a bit weird ?

It is unusual, but whatever the two of you want to do that harms nobody is your business. If you like it and it works for you - fill your boots.

While I say that it's unusual, it is common enough for there to be plenty of chastity cages available for men to wear so that they cannot achieve erection and orgasm.

We havent gone as far as that yet. I was just curious as to why women enjoy this ?

We tend to do it if we are being ignored and not being given any attention. The form of orgasm denial is no sex at all!

Except shes getting the sex and the orgasam just not me !

Control & dominating. Maybe it’s her thing she’s discovered.

Maybe stop being inconsiderate In bed with her

Its 100% taught me that lesson. How long is it physically healthy to do this for though? A man probably needs to ejaculate at some point for health reasons

Which health reasons would those be?
Testicular explosion?

I thought there was something to do with prostate health but I may be wrong

I like the control...

Some men like to be controlled...

A friend really enjoys the release once he's freed

Also, there's an internet thing on Reddit - No Nut November, where basically you guys just don't ejaculate/cum for a whole month.. (woman can follow it too) ...

Not sure of health effects, but surely you'd just have a wet dream? (As obvs you don't have to cage it to stop yourself from touching 😉) - thats your control 😉😉

Have fun! But also, DO NOT neglect the missus! it's pretty tiresome if only the man has all the fun 🤪

@OldSpeclkledHen trust me she wont be neglected because shes getting another week of it ! I gave her the option and she bit very quick !

This is the longest I havent had pleasure myself in a long time and it's a very chastising experience

More frequent ejaculation is associated with a reduction in the risk of prostate cancer.

Article published by the NHS here.

However, how significant it is is very unclear because prostate cancer is associated with a range of different things: ethnicity, lifestyle, etc. Also, how accurate the underlying data is is also unclear. Finally, and most relevantly:

"The circumstances of ejaculation were not considered – in other words whether the occurrences were mostly through masturbation or with a sexual partner. This might have had an influence on the results."

So in other words, normal, regular sex with your DW (in which you ejaculate) will have the same effect. If your wanking is getting in the way of that, knock it off.

Dosent sound like I can use that as an excuse for not cumming for a few weeks.

Guess I'm just gonna have to suck up the blue balls and treat her to what she wants, it will hurt to an extent but I'm happy shes found something she likes.

A lot of people have a niche. DH has a bit of a CFNM fetish, which we both enjoy from time to time.

I get off on others sexual pleasure so the orgasm denial, wouldn’t work for me unlike your DP.

@NameChangeNugget do you think it's good to make sexual sacrifices for your partner , I enjoy giving her pleasure but it's very very frustrating for me

Some times but, not all the time

Well shes enjoying herself so I'll keep going with it for now

Just imagine how good it will feel when you do finally bust your nut

@busybarbara I did and it went pretty much everywhere. We are definitely gonna do again soon

My partner wanks most days when we are apart - we don't live together & see each other most weekends.

When we are together he denies himself orgasm until the final day, as he enjoys the build up of tension, resulting in a much bigger explosion. He also zonks out immediately after cumming & feels that is rather selfish. as I am usually up for more.

He enjoys making me cum lots & tells me he gets most of his pleasure from this - he is certainly as hard as a rock most of the time when we are having sex, no matter what we are doing.