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Premature ejaculation

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Louise000000 · 29/12/2019 18:28

Seeing a new man and we have done sexual stuff on 2 occasions and both he came with barely being touched.

Today we had sex for about 30 seconds and he came then he made me come 3 times so I was happy enough. But we kept trying again for sex and he couldn't get it hard

Has anyone had experience with this kind of thing as I haven't! Is it something that can improve once he is more relaxed with me etc?
I know he can wank for a good while without coming as I've seen him do it.
Any tips?
I am patient and I do like him alot

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Ferretyone · 29/12/2019 18:42

That's confusing isn't it? Premature ejaculation followed by erectile dysfunction! The good news is - I suppose - that it is unlikely to be an ongoing problem and will get better as you get to know each other more.

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Louise000000 · 29/12/2019 18:47

I'm not throwing in the towel yet there's definitely potential there Grin

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Justaordinarybloke · 30/12/2019 10:23

It's a common thing. He obviously likes what he's seeing to make him cum. You can get condoms that numb the penis a bit to help last longer. Also bring him off first by a wank/oral then let him pleasure you, after that he should be ready to go.

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Louise000000 · 30/12/2019 23:14

We were using said condoms.

I had the idea to go quickly at first and then do more foreplay until he was ready again but 2 hours later he still wasn't!

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FinnGermey · 31/12/2019 00:02

Have a look at Super P-force tablets or similar.
Will make him last longer and be ready to go again a lot sooner

Namechangedyorkshire · 31/12/2019 07:13

I would consider at the start going down in him and giving him oral. I suspect he will cum extremely quickly which will mean you can both take your time with more sensual stuff like massage and foreplay. I suspect he will then last longer second time around but won't have felt the pressure to immediately perform.

Also how old is he as once in 40s in can take longer for men fr a second time

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Louise000000 · 31/12/2019 09:41

Great tips here will take them all on board.
the thing I'm a bit concerned about is how to talk to him about it as obviously I'm aware he will be embarrassed about it. He's already made a few comments/jokes about it. Don't want to totally humiliate him by mentioning it etc.
He's 38 but we tried for hours to get a second wind the other day and it really was not happening.
I had thought about the pills too actually.
Could be fun!!

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Justaordinarybloke · 31/12/2019 10:06

If it happens again just reassure him it's no big deal.

Sparkle567 · 31/12/2019 20:33

Could he try a cock ring?

Cock rings are designed to help men stay harder for longer...

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Louise000000 · 31/12/2019 21:13

I had thought about a cock ring actually!
Worth a try!

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Anotherblokelurking · 01/01/2020 06:58

PE is similar to stage fright with a new partner and great expectations to perform. I’ve experienced both. He should settle down but don’t make a fuss.

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Louise000000 · 01/01/2020 10:58

No id never make a big deal out of it, as I said he's very into pleasuring me so I can't complain!!
Will look forward to more practicing till we get it good

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