First time in 2 years, what to expect/do

[MyOhMyDelilah]

As the title says, I haven't dtd in two years. First time dating too, since ex.

How can I turn him in on? Build up sexual tension? Make it mind blowing?

I was once an absolute minx in the bedroom, but now find myself needing some guidance and a boost in confidence in my ability to perform in the bedroom.

Grateful for any advice

It's like riding a bike.
You'll be a bit off balance at the beginning but then you'll remember how to flirt, flutter the eye lashes, use the body language,
Good luck.

I find a bit of sexting helps beforehand! Get an idea of each other's likes and expectations

A bit like riding a bike. Well, I suppose it is. How do I drop flirty hints without sounding like a bit of a slut? No, we haven't yet sexted! I'm excited and nervous all at once.

So on a date you play with your hair, keep crossing your legs, fluttering your eye lashes. Make eye contact and linger on the moment, wriggle your hips whilst sitting, lean forward towards him, (have a revealing top on. nothing like a bit of down the blouse) touch his leg or arm,

Need I say more??????

Thanks @noego

You're welcome :)

The art of seduction is not lost on us blokes :)

Once a minx.......
Dont think about it, it will come naturally.

Perhaps don't get planning the first time too much aside from making yourself feel comfortable and relaxed. I found that was new lingerie and an afternoon at the beauticians having the usual but I liked getting waxed and finishing with a massage.

You can drop scuttle hints so he knows that it is a possibility and go from there. Once you have got to know each other a little then start getting a little more minxy...blokes loves you encouraging saying some slutty or dirty things. I don't think you will need much guidance last that as sounds like your mojo isn't too far off.

Again, great comments here by @noego and @Namechangedyorkshire - speaking as a man I also love to see a revealing top, a bit of a glimpse down the blouse, a lot of sexting and some confidence. And yes a few slutty or dirty things helps. It all does work.
There's nothing worse than being really sexually attracted to someone and then finding out that they are quite shy or prudish. Things then get a bit awkward and you can get very put off.

If anyone thinks you are “a bit of a slut”, they are the wrong sort of person. Go out and enjoy, you have been celibate far too long.

I was in a Similar situation and I told him that was the case and let him take the lead the first time.

Your over thinking if you want you can tell him it's been 2 years and your nervous. TBH trying to plan it will take the fun out of it.
To set your mind at rest nothing has changed in the last 2 years the same things go in the same places just relax ENJOY.

How did this go OP