Lack of making me insecure

[lora1231]

Recently my partner and I have been going through a dry spell. My partner works two jobs at random hours and has recently been shattered because of it. I've tried my hardest to accept that and let him know that when he feels like he's got his mojo back then we'll pick things up again but I'm starting to find myself feeling really insecure in myself and our relationship because of it.
I've started worrying about other women, about how I look. Basically beating myself up about it cause I just feel like it must be me!

I've tried talking to him about it slightly, I don't wanna make him feel guilty though If he's genuinely just going through sometime, he tells me it's nothing to do with me and he's just shattered/stressed with with he can't focus on such things.

But how long should this go on for!? Does it get to a point I'm allowed to be annoyed??
It's literally driving me insane

What you are experiencing isn't so unusual, but you are right to be mindful to be thinking about not letting it go in too long. Marriages without sex in at least medium term suffer.

Why not try and make time for a nice evening, but have it at home. Get a takeaway or something simple to cook, and let him know you are going to give him a massage as a treat to relax him. Don't make him think you expect anything more but most guys when massaged and fingers go near intimate places will soon start to get aroused. If he doesn't , don't make a thing of it and let him enjoy it and know how much you care. Just keep working on him like that.

If it continues then you need to speak together

Is there a reason he has 2 jobs? If you can afford it book weekend away secluded with a hot tub just forget to take bikini.