I've lost my orgasm! Hypnotherapy?

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I'm in my mid forties and have had a surge in interest in sex over the past year. I now have a FWB who I have a great time with but I have suddenly stopped being able to orgasm (with him or alone) I am still very interested in sex and get hugely aroused and have a lovely time but cant seem to have a satisfying orgasm. I reach a point where I'm nearly there but not there completely. I used to have the most amazing long orgasms but not any more. It's very strange. I've been reading about it and am taking all sorts of suppliments (vitamin D and B12 etc) to try and boost my body.
My life is very stressful at the moment so I'm wondering if it's a mental block of some sort. I'm considering looking for a hypnotist or something to help me. I hope he/she wont take the piss and make me orgasm every time I see frozen peas in tesco or something. Although that would make shopping more interesting.
My FWB is very very attentive and goes all out to get me there. In fact the last time we met I pretended I did cum because he did such a marvelous job. The previous me would have cum over and over I'm sure.
Any thoughts?

You have probably hit the nail on the head when mentioning the high level of background stress in your life at present.

Reducing that is never going to do much harm, but a session, or two, with a hypnotherapist might be worth it. I have been to one in the past and found it to be incredibly relaxing and useful. Stage hypnotism and what you want are worlds apart and you will not be made to cum every time you enter the frozen food aisle.

Sometimes with FWB the anticipation and spontaneity can go out the window and can become a bit MEH.
Perhaps different scenarios and build up........

OP, are you taking any medication for stress or otherwise?

Please do yourself and womankind a favour. Do not fake it. It’s far better to explain the position to your friend. Anyone caring will understand.

Also try concentrating on solo play while being held.

Good luck. x

I know I know, faking it is not good. I have been telling him its not happening and hes been really trying to please me. He really went all out last time and I caved. I know it was the wrong thing to do. What's the point in trying to please myself with him when I know I cant get there on my own? Or maybe I will with him, it's worth a try.
No not on any medication.
Thank you for your replies x

perhaps a little edging and denial for a few weeks

Does edging mean getting nearly there and stopping? And denial mean not trying at all? X

Edging means being in a state of arousal, either psychologically or physically. That state of arousal usually needs satisfying by way of an orgasm. Denial is denying the orgasm until such times as it cannot be denied any longer and release is necessary.

A skilled lover can get you to edge for hours and keep denying you an orgasm until you're begging for the release.

Sounds great!

It is :)