Excess discharge/fluid

[Louise000000]

Since having my babies I seem to have loads of discharge (been tested numerous times and all clear)
A few occasions when I was with dh I'd be so embarrassed as there would be some obviously visible to him and he would want me to wipe it away
Now have the possible opportunity of sex with a new man in the not too distant future hopefully and I'm just wondering what I should do, go and douche right before hand?
Wouldn't want him to be put off!!

Vaginal discharge is completely natural and normal so I think any partner who is about it is being ridiculous. If you're not on any hormonal contraception, discharge will change over the month in colour, appearance and even smell. All totally normal. I would say your exDH had a weird reaction and is not typical, so try and relax and stop worrying about it. Very unlikely you'll get that reaction from a new man.

I agree. Sounds perfectly normal to me. Relax!

Your ex is a twat.

Enjoy and don't think about it x

Elmosducks love your honesty!!
I'm over thinking everything as been with dh 12 years, don't know any different! !

I doubt you're going to get any reaction from the new man.

If you feel brave you could always throw in a "you've made me really wet" or "I get very wet when I'm turned on like this". Make it into a positive.

Your ex is the odd one, not you. Have fun.

When I was single a lady with a wet pussy was so sexy and Ioved oral or PIV sex with someone who was really dripping wet, I was less keen on someone who was dry as I felt she did not want me. (I am now married and love it when my wife is wet but limit my experiences to her alone)

My partner would be more turned on tbh

As a man, I’d take it as a compliment! No need to tell him it’s always like that and, as Textbook says, if sexy talk is your thing then tell him how wet he makes you and it will blow his mind.

Your ex was a bit of a dick for giving you a hang up about it. He’s the weird one, not you.