Advice - photographs

[RosieBenenden]

I am 44 and DH is 57 and have been married for 23 years. 2DDs both at boarding school and life financially and socially is amazing; no complaints. We are at the point sexually where we DTD maybe once a month and I really want regular sex with DH as opposed to what we have. We hav e discussed ways to rekindle and he has asked me to agree to letting him take aset of photographs in underwear/topless/naked just for our own private use to see if it can form part of getting back into a regular sex life as a couple. Has anyone tried this and did it work? How does it feel for the woman? I am genuinely apprehensive but keen to make an informed choice.

I think in the context of whether or not to pose nude with your face for your spouse, it can be assumed that anyone with half a brain cell would turn off all default uploading setting and family iCloud sharing.

Infact, if a pic does happen to accidentally upload to your Instagram (or whatever) account that all your friends and family follow then hiding your face isn’t going to save you 🤣

It’s not strangers seeing you nude that’s the real threat here, it’s your family / kids / friends / colleagues.

Ironically, in this instance hosting the pics on a third party website ie Vidble or similar and deleting straight off your phone is going to be a lot safer.

My point is, if you’re worried about accidental sharing then just don’t be an idiot and make sure you’ve sorted that all out first. But if you’re worried about your spouse sharing your nudes without your permission (some people like to share their nudes online) then you’re married to the wrong person.

MsSlightyConfused Shall We agree to differ? Flounces out😃

Did you just flick your hair at me?! 😱🤣

No, Its not there's not enough of it these days

@MsSlightlyConfused and @SirGawain - Now you 2, kiss and make up. But you must take your clothes off first !

If it's just about being seen in a different way, could you start with an old camera with no film in/broken? Still the being photographed/posing thing but no actual photos...

I think if you see the duplicate thread, the OP has tried it and had a positive experience. She didn't say as to type of pics or experience but she seemed to have had a good time!

Oh good, I’m so glad OP!!