I am so worried lately as I am in an otherwise perfectly happy relationship; however, only 1 and a half years in and our sex life is almost non existent. We go to bed, we put the TV on and then go to sleep. I feel unattractive because of it and I feel like the spark in our relationship is dying out. My SO is very ticklish and always has been, so initiating sex is always awkward; but he's always done that anyway. Yet lately it seems he's not interested. He can be lying in bed next to me just playing with his errection, then just leave it to go down and go to sleep. He's done that twice just this week. Yet if I go to touch him he freaks out and says he's ticklish. It's really getting to me on a really emotional level but whenever I've mentioned it he's laughed it off as though I'm kidding.
Is it me ? Is he not attracted to me anymore or is he genuinely ticklish and its affecting him. It's so strange as he was never this bad before. I'm growing more and more concerned as time goes by and I spend more nights awake all hours feeling frustrated and unhappy. Any advice would be really appreciated. Thank you in advance. Emma.