Nice problem

[Namechangedyorkshire]

I know some would say this is a nice problem to have given the difficulty some women have.

DH wanted to spice things up in bed a little. We have a good sex life already but have always been mindful of keeping things fresh as well. He asked about trying a vibratory and after some thought I said ok. He bought one. Nothing special, a normal type thing, and not a Womaniser or rabbit (which is just as well)

The problem is that he loves using it and is very considerate and likes seeing me enjoy him using it on me, but as soon as he uses it inside me then I just orgasm straight away. This is without touching my clitoris. He loves using it inside me but it just seems to tip me straight over.

Has anyone had this problem 🤭...I thought it might be a case of getting used to it but been a month now and everything is over so quickly.

Your first orgasm definitely does not have to be your last. I reckon that you need to do a bit of research on becoming multi-orgasmic. It sounds as though it could be immense fun for the pair of you if you manage to achieve it.

@xpc316e Thanks for that. Maybe I need to work in that. I found that the orgasm I have with the vibrator is incredibly intense...would be nice to have more but it doesn't feel to me like I would be carrying on for another go. DH loves seeing it happen but would just like to be able to use it for longer, as would I

Just go with the flow, multiple’s might happen.
My wife has always been extremely quick off the mark and as she’s got older multiples are less and less common so we happily accept sex never lasts very long!

Hardly a problem at all is it? ‘Pleased life is giving you a buzz. Slow down and don’t switch on so early. Then after you have let go, carry on, there is that mild discomfort ultra sensitive stage, where it can be a little difficult, but beyond that a whole new world awaits. You might find that you “have to be the driver” though.

As I've got older (mid 40s now) i've definitely found my capacity for multiple orgasms has been reduced. The more intense the initial orgasm, the less likely I'm able to have another one, and carrying on with stimulation just becomes irritating and eventually painful. OTOH sometimes I can definitely bang another one out, so it's always worth trying.

Is he hitting your G spot with it? I've never had an orgasm from a vibrator inside, only on my clit. I'm kinda envious!