Would you husband/ partner be offended if you suggested buying this?

[teenmum18]

www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32920

Would he be offended?

Dh hasn't taken it the way i expected 🙈

How did you think he would take being told out of the blue that his penis was three inches too short?

Well I didn't see it any different to a dildo tbh. He's fine with me owning those 🤷🏻‍♀️thinking about it though I probably shouldn't have showed him.

Speaking as a man it would depend on how the "item" was presented. If you bought it together for fun and as something to use once in a while then I'd be fine with it. If it was produced in the heat of the moment with him ready and being expected to dtd with on with no warning then I'd be less impressed. It is bound to remove most sensation and he may well interpret it as suggesting he is not well enough equipped to satisfy.....just my take....

Well I haven't even got it. I was snooping on love honey and came across it. Sent the link to dh asking if he'd use it and he was not happy to say the least 🙈

Most of the reviews are by men so they haven't taken offence to it. Maybe it was just too much for dh.

I'd be fine with it if I knew in advance and it was just for extra fun and not a replacement so to speak.....anything to please.....but everyone is different..

@Sparkybloke that's all I intended it to be. I'm really shocked at his reaction.

Wow after reading the reviews I want to get BF one...how shall I broach it??

Hmm maybe don't surprise him with the link like I did 🙈 dh said he'd never been so insulted in his life 😬

Men can be insecure about anything that suggests that woman might want something a little extra or different. In this case though I think a “Find the Clitoris” map would be more useful .

It looks uncomfortable for the wearer and the receiver. Similar to the (male?) strap on fantasie in girlie fun. Not what is really wanted.

Look at it from another point of view how would you feel if he sent you the link and said your fanny's massive bought this to stop me falling out.
You've basically implied his cocks not big enough for you .Don't know how your going to come back from that

Most men are insecure when it comes to the size of their cock....probably more so in young men and not helped by porn which usually features extremely well endowed male performers and often women with obviously enhanced breasts... Age tells one that size may be a factor but technique and communication is far more important....you learn by experience and most of all by feedback from your partner. If you want to try one then you need to talk to your partner when the time is right and hopefully make him believe it is not about his size but it is just about fun exploration together....your fantasy is feeling extra full...what is his fantasy and can you fulfil his? Maybe and maybe not...he may feel threatened and intimidated by the idea in which case best to move on or with the right conversation he may see the fun and funny side of a cock extender providing it is just a fun accessory and not an essential part of sex. Good Sex is rarely about size and shape, be it penis or vagina but about openness, technique and listening and understanding each other's likes and dislikes and absolute boundaries. Hope it works out for you OP.

I've bought a couple of this types of items in the past. One was a flesh coloured extension which rolled down over my dick giving an extra few inches but more significantly it had a vibrating end. The trouble was it was so heavy it was impossible to keep at a decent angle also thr tip of my dick didn't appreciate being rammed into the foam separating the sheath bit and the vibrating end. One positive thing was if I put in on and stood in front of the mirror without contact lenses on I looked enormous.

The other one I had (and possibly still do) was a clear latex one with a textured end. Made me look like an alien and again I struggled with the weight of it

Basically if your man has an erection of steel then go for it!

As I have mentioned elsewhere on here in the past, being of a certain age and having had the pleasure of quite a number of bed friends, in spite of all the hype, having someone particularly large inside you can actually be uncomfortable.

You probably know this but if it is just depth you seek then doggystyle will allow your partner to be able to achieve particularly deep penetration. And speaking as a man, the sight of a partners bottom and inviting vulva is an enormous turn on when it comes to piv sex....won't solve a desire for girth but may restore his confidence that he can satisfy you when it comes to depth before you broach the subject of your enhancer for just a bit of extra fun maybe....

I wouldnt be impressed at all and would be insulted.

Basically i’m being told im too small and then having to wear something that looks sodding uncomfortable and would do nothing for me so you get your 9 inches of fun.

What would you think if he produced the sleeve of a fleshlight and said be love, put that inside you i think it would be lots of fun

He’d be shaggjng the flesjlight, not you

How would you feel if he sent you a link which implied you have a fanny like a yawning hippo?

You should talk to my husband. His operation for Peyronie's Disease left him with a cock that's just under three inches when he's hard and it was him that first suggested getting something like this for my benefit.

Now we have quite a collection, all shapes and sizes, and he's happy that I'm happy! We don't always use them - sometime I just want to feel him inside me - but we both enjoy the option. He says he prefers the hollow strap-ons we have because they give him more control and he's adamant that they don't stop him enjoying himself - lots of lube and it's not uncommon for him to cum when he's wearing one.

harmless that is the funniest thing I've read in a long time!!

Lets say he's of average penis size so 5 or 6 inches. Why would you want to extend it to 8 or 9? Anything above 7 inches I find painful. It doesn't look like it would feel good for whoever's wearing it either.

And how would you feel if he decided you're not tight enough and asks to put a flesh light or similar in you?! You'd hardly feel anything.

Sex will be loads better for you if you realise it's about both people having fun.

It's got a few good reviews, but it doesn't look very nice, a bit like something in a butchers window. I would imagine it wouldn't be very good for those men who only have tiny little weak todgers.

Me and DP use one of these occasionally.

I would recommend x

I rreckon mine would be upset yeah. I imagine most women would be if they were presented with something like a pp suggested, to make it tighter for him.

If my mrs suggested it I’d be happy to give it a try. Really am open to any if it doesn’t work well at least we tried