Tips for 69

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So I'm in a new relationship and everything is amazing and he really wants to 69. I do too but I'm very hesitant as I've never done it before. I just feel like it's such an awkward position to get in to. Sex with X(only person I've slept with) was very rubbish so doing something like this is all new to me.

Anyway, I'm seeing him tonight and would really like to conjure up the nerves to suggest it so if you have any tips on how to get into the position comfortably and how I can make sure he really enjoys himself that would be great thanks.

He goes down on me all the time and he's incredible so I'd like to return the favour.

What is so difficult?

I would suggest you start by when you feel ready, then start working down his chest, kissing his nipples etc and work down below and start feeling and touching him and then start giving him a BJ. You can then gradually slide down from your knees and lay side on top to toe. I guarantee you that at some point he will want to start touching you below and if you gradually move closer you can move to a 69

When me and DH tried it we laid on our sides but I think if I try it again I’ll lie on top of him legs either side of the torso as I found it a bit awkward on the side.

Maybe ‘lie’ isn’t the best word to describe what I mean really, but you know what I mean?
On top of him supporting yourself on your knees would be my suggestion.

A favourite of mine. Can help if he has pillows each side that you rest you knees on...raises you up a bit. You can attend to him in what ever way you please and he gets the most fantastic view of you...and has easy access for a tongue etc....enjoy!

It’s easy. You can either lay on your sides or one person lays on their back and the other climbs on top, the other way round.

From a personal point of view though, I do find it difficult to focus because of what’s going on the other end.

I'll sit on my partners chest facing away from him move myself up to his face so I'm basically sat on his face then bed over down to his penis so I can please him while he's pleasing me.. Love that position 😉
Have fun

My partner knows I'm still a bit shy with this one as like you I've never done it before .
We've done it a few times now and he was the one on top facing backwards .... fabulous tbh

To add, if you are going for foreplay (a much understated term) this is not so important, but if you are intending to swallow, you will be much more comfortable on top. Beware the desire to bite at the heat of the moment!

I prefer DH on top when in 69 position. I love teabagging him and he seems to reciprocate more enthusiastically

My absolute favourite as part of foreplay. I prefer side by side as then neither of us gets tired. We never mention it before hand, it usually starts as me going down on him and then I sort of slide up beside him and he knows what I want!

I did find in my single years a lot of women, even though they love men going down to give oral, don’t like to squat over their partner’s face whether for 69ers or oral, seems to be too intimate. With DW1 we usually did 69ers on our sides, while DW2 prefers me on top. I would say if you don’t want to swallow go on top, I find when I reach the point of no return I can’t help but thrust and come in her mouth which she doesn’t like. I did have one partner who loved to go on top and I loved it. So give them all a try.

But @Anotherblokelurking swallowing when you are underneath is not comfortable because of the position. If you don’t believe me try taking a small drink while laying on your back.

Never had a problem swallowing generally or squatting over someone’s face for the first time though; sex is intimate by nature.

I think I agree with anotherblokelurking on the female face squat thing.