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No sex after baby!

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Flowerpot26 · 22/05/2019 13:18

Baby has just turned 1! I feel we are in a rut, after baby was born horrible delivery took about 3 months to heal and obv new born lifestyle, we were both knackered, and then since then he's had to work longer as one of his main employees was stealing, so that was all stressful, at the same time I've a close family member that is on end of life treatment so it all rather sad and stressful,but I'm starting to think we need to sort this out, loving in other ways and cuddles and kisses and the occasional fonderling so to say, but definitely not sex, anyone had this? Want to try for a second soon and joked that we would have to adopt as not sure how were going to make one! 🙈, I've mentioned it a few times and he says ooh let tonight but then something happened and he's late home or baby is teething etc, we don't have any family that are able to have the baby overnight, but she's in her own room anyway, and sometimes sleeps thru, were just both abit take it or leave it I think but that not how I want my marriage, help
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Gre8scott · 25/05/2019 18:11

My baby ia 6 in august it never came back shea an only child. I coulent think of anything worse

Bouncer4me · 21/06/2019 10:22

Our daughter is 7 weeks old tomorrow and we are exhausted but every now and then we just go for it 😀 even though I always think I could be sleeping now. It’s always worth it in the end because it’s helped us keep a bond when some of the time I want to kill him lol.

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 29/06/2019 07:50

For us it was just quick quickies anywhere we could, it kept the bond.

I think you need to make the war move OP, and let him know that your ready. My husband was frightened to touch me as he witnessed my childbirth (not pretty) so he was waiting for me to tell him, as he didn’t want to feel as if he was pressuring me.

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