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When I masterbate , I always think of women. I have never been with a woman but the idea of it turns me on so much.

I am in a relationship and we have children. However I cannot get past this desire to experience a sexual relationship with a woman.

Does this make me bi-sexual? I don't think I could be in a relationship with a woman but I cannot escape the desire to experience a sexual relationship and explore my curiosity!

Any advice?

This all sounds straightforward to me. Why the need for a label?

Hi op, I am 100% straight and wouldn't personally want to experience anything sexual with a woman, however, I do occasionally like watching lesbian porn / 3 somes with 2 women and 1 man. I wondered why I felt like this since I know I wouldn't want sex with a woman but a couple of friends and I discussed this when we'd had a drink and we realised that loads of us felt like this. For us it was to do with imagining the pleasure that the woman is feeling which is more relatable than the man!

It doesn't necessarily mean you are Bi etc. Years ago before I met my DH I was on holiday with then bf and another couple who were friends. Came in after lunch after a few drinks, inhibitions lowered and started paying silly card games etc which ended in some sexual shenanigans and ultimately we had a foursome. It included the other girl doing stuff to me which I had never experienced before. Must admit I really enjoyed, in fact the whole thing. Not one I have repeated but not one I regret either but don't feel I'm bi....does it matter?

I agree with the others - lose the labels. I don't know about you, but my sexual preferences are on a sliding scale and can change from day to day. I have never had a romantic relationship with anybody other than women, but I have had an oral sexual experience with another man and it was frankly incredible. I suppose that would make me bisexual in the eyes of some people, but in all honesty sex is just sex in my opinion. If you fancy sex with a person of the same gender, then so what? What you, or your mind, get up to is your business and it isn't for me to put you in a labelled box.

I'm married with two boys, but on social media last week, I was contacted by a woman from the US (attractive, confident etc.) She made it plain she found me very attractive and started openly flirting with me. I made it clear that I had never been involved with a woman before, but I was flattered by her attention & enjoyed talking to her. Our conversations got increasingly heated and I found myself so turned on, it was crazy! We described our fantasies etc of being together in bed, but then out of the blue last night, she messaged me (despite telling me I was a "Goddess" ten mins before) sand said that I was getting "too attracted" to her (!) and "too serious" (which I wasn't) and that we should cool things.
I was upset and puzzled and messaged her this afternoon to ask why she had done what she did - but she got really aggressive and then blocked me, before pulling her page from Twitter and vanishing! I felt so stupid; hurt and confused.
The only bright spot of today, was another woman who saw my photo and remarked that "I could make her day happy any time!" which did make me smile!
I guess I just needed to tell someone, as this woman did make me feel foolish, but but I'm still so turned on by the thought of sharing my fantasies with another woman.
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