'Perfect' BJ?

[FromageFrais]

So im seeing a guy who is hotter than the sun and totally in love with me. Perfect right? He gives AMAZING head and i of course want to return the favour.
However he wasnt able to get 100% hard via oral. And wasnt able to finish, either on my face or in my mouth (im not fussy).
He said i gave the best BJ he ever had (i dont believe that...i think he was consoling me) but later over text he admitted hes never really orgasmed during a BJ as no one has ever taken their time or really focused on him like that? Like its always been a flat foreplay thing and just led to sex. He said the only time he's come has been from full on tight wanking and penetrative sex

I now feel i have a challenge on my hands. How do i give him the BJ of his life that will result in him spilling all over? I neeeed need NEEEED to do this.
He is amazing and my previous superpower was always giving head.

Help!

Ha ha! Love it! Good on yer!

@fromagefrais Really glad to hear it all worked out for you. You sound truly perfect and reinforces the view that a bit of communication between partners is always the way to go.
I much prefer a handjob to a BJ. But I do enjoy a bit of both. It can be equal parts thrilling and off-putting to be with someone who professes from the start to giving 'amazing head' - it can sometimes lead to a pressure of expectation which can block the right things at the right time.
That said, getting a BJ from an enthusiastic passionate partner who can encourage and give a bit of dirty talk can also be a huge win. Being encouraged to finish can be a real turn on.
Glad it's worked well for you and your superpower is restored!

I agree with throwaway that dirty talk can really turn on DH...I have to be in the mood and a few glasses of wine helps but when I have, coupled with telling him I need him to cum in my mouth usually means it happens within seconds lol.

I think dirty talk is really under-appreciated. I never ever met a girl who did it when I was young. We were all inexperienced so everything was new and/or a first time.
I don't think I'm the sort of person who is into being dominated in any way shape or form but I do like to be encouraged to reach orgasm by my wife.

Talking and giving a blowie is a tough order!

I agree with the dirty talk. I was never one for it at all and never experienced it.

God i fucking love it now! Asking him where he wants to cum, begging him for it, him telling me how dirty i am etc etc.

Ive been opened up to a whole new world of sexiness.

Without wanting to be a boring repetitive poster - not all men love a finger up the bum. Some absolutely love it and go crazy in a good way, some don't. There is no such thing as a guaranteed sexual technique that everyone loves.

I've had to wait until the 90 days passed to post on here. Just wanted to add after reading this thread I decided to use my teeth on my partner and he loved it. He asked me to bite harder. It's something I hadn't tried before in previous encounters as I didn't want to be labelled a grater but he absolutely loves it !

@faulkner200 always swallow I don’t mind if a partner doesn’t want to swallow but I would say either swallow or pull off at the last minute and let him give you a pearl necklace or “money shot” but don’t let him come in your mouth then spit it out- that makes us feel we’ve done something awful.

This thread has been educational for me.