Name changed for this. Slightly red cheeked to be posting but this is genuine.
My (newish) DP has a large penis, c. 9 inches.
We largely have a great sex life, I find him really, really attractive and he really turns me on.
I climax fairly easily and we've worked out positions that are comfortable. The only thing is that I often find it very difficult to climax through penetrative sex with him so we do a lot of oral, masturbate each other to climax together etc but I would like to be able to come through penetration more. It's nice to have that closeness of coming together with him inside me, if that makes sense. I can get really close but not always all the way 'there'.
This is kinda hard to describe (and apols for TMI) but I find that his size means that when he's in me he's still 'above' me and where with previous partners I would have climaxed through pressure/stimulation on my clitoris from the base of his penis this just doesn't quite happen because of his size....basically I don't have the weight of his pelvis against me in the right way to kind of grind against. Missionary seems particularly hard although it's a position we sometimes both like so we can snog, look at each other's faces etc.
I've also found that things I've done with other partners - moving myself - that they've found nice and have felt on their penis don't really do much for him....it's like he's too big do notice some things I do.
Any hints. tips or advice?