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Why has he stopped going down on me?

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malificent7 · 11/03/2019 07:48

Dp is a great lover and we have passionate sex BUT he has stopped going down on me which he used to love.
I give him blow jobs and used to love a 69. I think i will have to talk to him about it. I do wash and shave...is he taking me for granted?

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MarieG10 · 11/03/2019 07:58

Yes you need to talk to him. Something has changed especially if you are still having sex and everything else there is going well. Do agree with you as I love my DH going down so I would be upset if he stopped. Hope the chat goes well and let us know

slartybardfast · 12/03/2019 16:07

Perhaps a confidence issue? If he doesn't feel like his efforts are 'bearing fruit' then he might be more inclined to not try.
Maybe he feels like he can't ask for help?

Banana1979 · 26/03/2019 21:28

I dont want to sound rude but some women dont wash their vag for hours before sex then expect their partner to go down. One woman on here wrote that on average she washes approx 6 hours before sex. Im sorry but vaginas dont smell fresh enough for someone to go down on for 6 hours
Maybe its this and he feels bad to say
.make sure you wash down there straight before sex so you are as fresh as a daisy.

StarlightLady · 27/03/2019 06:21

The OP says she washes and shaves.

If you are prepared to let someone inside you, then you should be in a position to talk about it. Do discuss with him and tell him how much you enjoyed it and are missing it.

You have needs. And another of those needs is communication.

xpc316e · 27/03/2019 07:00

Sometimes a vulva can be so fresh that it has almost no taste whatsoever. Only once in my life have I gone down on a woman to find that her taste was so strong that I was put off, so don't assume that all men want a flavourless, anodyne vulva.

ConfusedDH · 27/03/2019 07:56

I have to agree with Banana1979, yes female genitals all will have an odour to some degree, as do men, but there's a difference between natural odour and the smell of stale urine, or for want of a better word, 'bum smell'. I've experienced this many times and it really is very off putting and would make me less inclined to venture down unless I know the person has showered very recently.

ForalltheSaints · 27/03/2019 18:36

Definitely communication.

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