Weird kink...

[Pawprintjoy]

My DP has recently confided in me about a strange kink he has...now I’m pretty open to these kind of things but he wants me to call him ‘daddy’ during sex

The main reason I’m awkward about this is that our two year old co-sleeps with us and I really don’t know what to think. wwyd?

I’d be weirded out by that.

That's a no from me..

No way sorry

I want to say I wouldn’t be bothered, but I actually think I would. It feels creepy.

Your child co sleeps. How do you have sex then?

We either do it on the floor with blankets, on the sofa or the spare bedroom —or in the bathroom—

what happens between two adults and is kept merely as a fantasy not reality in the case of some things its up to them but if it freaks you out then dont do it

Your child co sleeps. How do you have sex then? Really?!

Pawprintjoy I've found this to be pretty normal for men to like this.......but only fir men who don't have children. Your daughter calls him daddy I assume, surely he associates the name with her? Why would he want to think about his daughter whilst having sex?!

Pawprintjoy I've found this to be pretty normal for men to like this.......but only fir men who don't have children.

In the kink scene this is very true. However, I'd be very uncomfortable, even concerned, of a father doing this. Extremely concerned.

I find this very weird and yes I would be concerned and definitely no way a turn on for me at all.

I've never understood the daddy thing... even with no kids, literally don't get what it does for a guy. Can someone enlighten me?

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I've never understood the daddy thing... even with no kids, literally don't get what it does for a guy. Can someone enlighten me?*

This ^^
I have never understood this, fortunately nobody has ever asked me to do it but if they did I'd be creeped out.

I don't, and never have, understood why men like this. Makes me shudder as a bloke tbh.

There's something else going on here. In the context of sex, "Daddy" shouldn't be taken to be a reference to anything paedophilic. It's normally used within a relationship of dominance and submission: being called Daddy symbolises the submissive's ceding of power to and trust in their partner (there is sometimes a Daddy in a lesbian relationship, too).

However, if this is the case, then he has certainly chosen a very strange way to go about raising his interest in d/s with you. And you should certainly never do anything that freaks you out, no matter how much he wants it (within d/s, the submissive is the one who sets the parameters). If you're not the slightest bit submissive, I can see how you would think this was extremely weird. But I would suggest having a talk about it find out why. And don't let him get away with "I just fancied it." There's more to it than that.

I'd ask him what it means to him to say this? Submissive is ok, but I would feel so uncomfortable otherwise

Not unusual in a D/sub relationship tbh. Always reminds me of A House Of Cards;
//Quote
Mattie Storin: I don't know what to call you. There's nothing I can call you.
Francis Urquhart : You can call me Francis.
Mattie Storin : That's just it, I can't. I don't think of you as Francis. It's so stupid.
Francis Urquhart : You can hardly call me Chief Whip.
Mattie Storin : I want to call you Daddy.
//Unquote
Pretty harmless in itself except that he pushes her of the roof in the end.

Like with most things, if you feel uncomfortable, don’t do it. Personally I would not feel comfortable having sex if co-sleeping with a DC. More so than the Daddy thing tbh,

I knew a 'daddy' once, never got into a relationship with him. He liked a woman to dress up as a girl in pigtails and do colouring, sit on his knee, have bed time stories. .....freaks me out thinking about it.

I'd be seriously disturbed by it if DH wanted this. I'd consider my whole relationship to be over in fact.