Help am I developing sex addiction?

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Hi all let me explain first I didn’t actually start having sex 2 yrs ago due a 13 year break as could not due to single parent/busy.

I had a short 6 week relationship then a couple very short relationships with about 4 blokes in 2 years that were disasters from OLD.

Role forward to 2 months ago and things have gone crazy....I saw 2 men for couple weeks finished with mr S then Mr Fun finished with me...then hooked up with Mr IT1 then Mr Fun cam back (he introduced BDSM before we split and was controlling dominant which I liked but he was at higher level and made Mr Grey look like child’s play wanting 3sum and sex clubs which we never got that far as now finished again) then met Mr IT2 had sex with him next day/date then video sex with Mr Fun same evening even though he finished with me still dominating me online.

So 3 different blokes in 10 days I don’t feel bad they were using me too... but this wasn’t me before and I don’t know what is happening?? I am mid 40s and have gone crazy for sex looking for new guys for ONS on OLD was never like this....what’s wrong with me?
Any insight or help welcome.

My recent sed life has also been rather chaotic, I think that sometimes you just need to get something out of your system. I would hazzard a guess that this will be something to do with needing constant affirmation that you are desirable and it is a good distraction from real life. I wouldn't worry too much about it, but do think long and hard about what you actually want.

I am also mid 40s and in similar situation. I have a collection of fwbs and in October I slept with 3 different men in the same week! Things have become a bit more regular with 1 fwb now but he in no way can keep up with my demands - actually I think he’s scared of them 😂. Though I like him a lot and am trying not to scratch the itch with other men - it’s my New Years resolution! I’ve no idea what came over me, but after 14 years with a man I never fancied the last 3 of which were sexless (turns out he was having an affair) I feel I’m making up for lost time. And all my fwbs are really bloody hot! So there probably is something about desirability and affirmation in there too. Just enjoy it, as long as you are safe.

Thank you both for your honest replies and both ring true.

@NotGoodie you are right it feels like something out of system and attention I never had for over a decade!

@Changedme yes I feel I am making up for list time...today another FWB has contacted me I fancy him too...meeting him in 2 weeks for a night of sex...that will be a 4th and have 5th potential
Thing is I like them all they are all hot and special to me in their own ways and I feel alive, wanted and confident for the first time ever!

You're just greedy Enjoy, it's your life just be safe.

Yes thanks @Jason I got to say they are all lovely to me far nicer than any guys I dated pre 30! I think it is also they are older more appreciate and experienced