Please help - partner slept with someone else & he may have STI

[reesesnlove]

My partner told me tonight that he slept with an escort last Friday. He slept with me the next day knowing what he'd done. Since he slept with this other woman he's worried he's caught an STI even though they used a condom (so he says). I petrified that I might have something but also that my son may have something because I'm breastfeeding him 😢 I'm so so scared. I can't believe he's done this to us and of course we are over now but all I care about is my son being ok! Where can I go and what can I do to find out if we've got something? My now ex has had an STI test but the results will take weeks and I can't sleep just thinking about the possibility that he's passed something onto us. Please if you have any advice do share it.

@reesesnlove but you are your children deserve much more than this vile man. You say he lies all the time, which is the hardest thing to deal with. You cannot trust a liar, you need to assume it's all lies and work from their.

Go to your heal visitor and see what support you can get with the children, research your benefits and then you need to get rid.

I appreciate that with small children that's daunting, but honestly there are good men out there and you all deserve one.

One step at a time and this time next week will be better, next month better and next year you'll be so much better.

Be strong, tell him to go!

@reesenlove I hope you’re ok! What a bastard. Tell him to do one and take his burning cock with him...

Thank you @Smeghead90. We aren't together anymore. I couldn't move forward when he's not willing to make changes and even admits he is selfish. Things will be much better now I don't have the weight of worrying about our broken relationship and trying to fix what can't be mended x

Hope you are doing ok. I have been in exactly your position, my twat of an ex did catch something from an escort.
Turns out that actually he was just one of many many married men who buy the use of a woman’s body. My view of him now is one of disgust - he is not a person I trust, respect or want around me. It gets easier I promise but just give yourself time and be selfish. What matters is you now because you need to be strong and happy in order to carry on. Good Luck.

Your partner is the loser here.