Roughplay with him

[Sally1985]

Long time reader, first time writing anything...

So been having some guilt type feelings and wanted some reassurance I’m not a freak!

For a while now I’ve been enjoying being rough with my SO’s balls. I don’t want to do permanent damage, and he definitely enjoys being “woman” handled. But is it wrong to get off on hurting him a “bit” - he’s not losing his erection, only a couple of times he has asked me to go easier and it’s getting me really worked up to be able to have him being powerless and the sex afterwards is great for both of us.

Is there something wrong with me? X

Nope as long as he enjoys it too.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Your desires are experienced by a lot of people, and as theothermum says, if he enjoys it too then all is fine.

If you want to experiment then may I suggest that you visit mojoupgrade.com where you both privately answer a questionnaire and the areas where your desires match are revealed to you both. Any areas that you would like to try but your partner identifies as a no-go are kept secret, so there is no risk of them being freaked out by your desire to explore.

Sally. Nothing wrong at all as long as you don't injure him, but I suspect he will yelp first lol. I do occasionally with my DH, I find squeezing and holding his balls and holding his foreskin back as tight as it will go means a very quick orgasm...he loves feeling as though I'm squeezing his balls empty.

Don't worry and enjoy if you both do

And make sure you have a safeword

Use the old mojo site at www.old.mojoupgrade.com