Married but curious....

[Midsummer82]

I’ve always thought of myself as straight but in recent months have become what can only be described as more curious.

My husband and I have a for filling sex life and openly share between us our desires,fantasies / what turns us on and we enjoy watching porn together.

I have recently approached him with the notion of me and bother lady which (like most men maybe!) he naturally loved the idea of.

So I am really interested in thoughts / experiences?

Obviously there’s a big difference between fantasy and reaslitu but would love to hear anyone else’s experiences.

So is this something which other married ladies in MN have delved into?

What barriers did you find?

Was it how you imagined?

And how oh how do you find that special woman...I feel like we need a magic wand to make this a reality 😀

You're not also pregnant are you OP?

Sorry, who is ‘bother lady’?

Another lady. A few other typos in there as well.

"Bother lady"could have been the title of a 70s sitcom!

Sorry, that does not really help answer the question

I had an experience (four not three) years ago (before met husband). On holiday with BF and another couple and sharing a villa. Too much of a boozy lunch and cards. Ended up with strip poker and well...a foursome ensued in the same room. I was very nervous despite the booze but got into it. Mind blowing, found some pangs of jealousy seeing bf penetrate other woman but was shocked I enjoyed her then taking the lead a pond doing some things to me which I then tried and enjoy....blokes loved seeing etc.

I see as a fab memory but would not invite another woman into our bedroom now as value my marriage to much, and realistically men will always want to join in and I don't think I could handle seeing that.

I used to think I was 100% straight until my mid 30s when I was beautifully and deliciously (plus I hasten to add, consentially) seduced by another woman.

My opinions have changed and I am now of the view that no woman is completely straight and I have had special friendships with both sexes but always on a 1:1 basis in the bedroom. My personal view is that introducing a third party to the bedroom could be a step to far and past the point of no return.