Penis size problem

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I've been in a relationship for a few months with a really wonderful man. We just seem to click on every level and we've both already admitted we're in love. I'm very happy and I fancy him loads, but I'm struggling a little bit with his size, penis-wise. He's a fair bit smaller and shorter in that department than I'm used to and while penetration isn't the be all and end all, it is important for me in terms of sexual satisfaction. I can achieve clitoral orgasms but when I'm having sex I love the feeling of fullness and being deeply penetrated (sorry if that sounds a bit pornographic), and i don't get to experience that with him.

I haven't said anything because clearly it would be hurtful and it doesn't change the way I feel about him at all. I'm just wondering if anyone has any suggestions? Sometimes we're having difficulty achieving penetration properly at all, partly because he's also quite chunky. I'm a fairly solid build myself and not physically flexible so it's just problematic on a purely practical level. I'm self-concious about doggy style ever since it occurred to me that it gives the male partner a constant eyeful of my arsehole (sorry!) so that's not a position I've tried yet with him. I love his body and don't want to shame him in any way or make him anxious by even eluding to this but I'm sad at the thought that our sex life might always be lacking in this area.

Has anyone else had this problem and is there anything you would suggest? Thanks for reading.

I don't think I'll be much help in general, but if you feel super self-conscious in doggy you could try some crotchless pants? Some of them are like full knickers at the back; that might at least make you a little more comfortable in that specific instance. Sorry I can't offer more advice on your bigger (or not) issues...

Table-ender

What's a table-ender? A sexual position?

What's a table-ender? confused A sexual position?

Yes. DO I really have to spell it out.

How high is your dining room table and can you sit on it an lie back?

Ok, I guess I could give it a go. Thanks.

Love Honey do penis sleeves (with knobs on - pardon the pun!) ... could you suggest you'd like to try one of those? (It's aimed at female pleasure...) 😉

That sounds intriguing! Could it be misconstrued though? 🤔

Yep!

penis sleeves best of luck having that conversion "can you pop this on your small cock so i can feel it".

Yeah, I don't think I'll be having that conversation with him! Although having had a quick look online there are some that are designed for 'mutual pleasure' with different textures etc. Rather than just enlarging things, so it hopefully wouldn't come across like that. I'm not sure it would feel that nice though, the intimacy of skin on skin would be missing for both of us.

I don't think there's a perfect solution here really. I've tried a few different positions with him just for variety (and obviously to see which give better penetration) and none have been that great, but it's not like I'm not enjoying the sex at all. It's still exciting and there's the closeness of it plus he's good with his hands! You can't have everything I guess.

I think I'm going to try working on my pelvic floor muscles, maybe that will make things feel more snug.

Just a thought, how "hard" is he on penetration? If not fully erect, trying a viagra or something similar may add a little length and fullness?

If you're still there OP I'd speak to him tbh. I used to think penetration was the thing I liked most but I think it's more that my previous partners weren't as good at other stuff. My current one has a big penis but many times we don't end up having penetrative sex because everything else is just amazing! You can still have thay feeling of fullness and intamacy!

Oh and the conversation will be a good test. If he's a good partner he will want to please you, same as you should with him. He's probably aware he isn't the biggest.

Guys with small dicks know they have small dicks. You're grown ups so discuss it.

It turns my DH on to be teased about his.........

Just a note about doggy style, i think the view of your arse (hole and cheeks!!!) is one of the main reasons guys love it. You should definitely try it you have nothing to lose...?

I do prefer a larger penis, the feeling of being fuller etc is really nice. Not sure I would end a relationship over it though if good in other ways. Is there a way for you both to look at being less "chunky"as you describe which may help and give you a fillip as well lol

Positions where you can close your legs will help you feel tighter and therefore get more feeling from his cock.

Try this one. He kneels up on the bed, you turn on your side so your arse is towards him. You raise your leg so he can get inside, then close your legs again. If you're flexible enough you can twist your torso so your pelvis is sideways but you're facing the ceiling, so you can still make eye contact

Hi I know in have a small penis and have a good sex life with my wife ,but she craves a big cock so after seeing if she will have another guy I've bought a strap on to try .hope it is what she needs .Just talk dirty and suggest it add a fantasy.