Am I being over sensitive?

[Watda]

Just had sex with my bf. He had been hoping for anal but I didn’t really fancy it tonight. I was on top and asked him if it was working for him. He replied that it was ok. Was I wrong to just climb off him.

I feel really hurt by this. However, I am a bit hormonal.

Not at all. If you didn't want to carry on after what he said that's up to you. Sulking as you didn't give him what he wanted was wrongZ

You're not being over sensitive.

There are times where honesty is not the best policy (does this dress make me look fat? etc) He very well might not have been massively into what you were doing at the time, but there's a way of expressing that whilst sparing the feelings of your partner.

I know how you feel, my ex blurted out once that "I was doing it wrong".

He should have expressed himself a lot better. He would be just as hurt probably expressed as anger and sulking if he asked you the same question in the heat of the moment and got the same answer.

Also -- I'm sure there's nothing wrong with the way you're doing it! Men aren't that fussy

@HowlingAtTheAbyss

I'll disagree that men aren't that fussy.

Some maybe might just be happy to be doing it in one form or other, however some men, myself included, value quality as much as any woman might - emotional connection, intimacy, passion, technique etc.

Just like I read so often that many men have really poor technique, it can apply to women, too.