lesbian fantasy?

[gellotys]

does anyone else have lesbian fantasy's?
i've been with a few girls but only drunken fun but i would class myself as straight. however i get so turned on by girls and only watch lesbian porn. anyone else like this? i need some girl on girl fun but wouldn't know where to start!! wouldn't want to do it with anyone i know!

I did and I acted on it.

The sex ok but I didn’t “let go” as I was so nervous.

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I've been with around 6 or 7 women when I was younger. Very similar to your experiences - but with one actual "girlfriend".

For whatever reason I have only dated / prefered men as partners but I find the female form far more appealing than any man. My DH of 5 years has had serious talks with me as to whether or not I'm actually a lesbian because I don't watch heterosexual pornography. It's just...not for me. I've always identified as bisexual myself however.

I tried explaining to my husband that I like watching lesbian porn because A. The female form is just better looking (to me at least) and B. When I watch women going at it, I know (generally speaking) how they feel when they do whatever they're doing which is a turn on.

I can't say I don't miss being with another woman, but I'm in a monogamous relationship with my husband, so my porn and the fantasies I have in my head will have to do for now.

So if you are single, or have the go ahead from your partner....go have fun! There are different websites and apps where you can look for no strings attached hookups so go and explore. Have some fun for me while you're out there!

It is natural to be excited by same sex. I am in a failing marriage with DH and would admit tempted to try same-sex-sex. How would your DH react if you said bisexual?

wouldn't want to do it with anyone i know!

That is... really problematic, to be honest. You're happy to have sex with a woman but you don't want anyone to know about it? Come on, the 1950s called, they want their homophobia back.

You could always book an escort. I've had a few female clients. Mainly ladies who are married to men but like a little pussy action from time to time and don't want to risk their marriages with potential emotional entanglement.

NotTheFordType

I think OP is just saying that she wouldn't want to have a one night stand with someone she would have to see again... which is understandable.

There are apps and things, or you could try a good old fashioned night out in the right club. The good thing about clubs is you start off on mutual ground.

Escort option is an excellent one. I have/am actively interested in that approach as I know an escort would have the experience I lack and could guide me through a first experience.

I wouldn't class myself as lesbian as married to a man! Not sure if this classes me as bi having had a couple of experiences years ago. Although I feel straight, I enjoyed the experience.

First occasion at a party...friend of friend and ended up having to stay over as couldn't get a taxi home. Woke and she had slipped in my bed and massaging my tummy. Just whispered to relax and enjoy and say if I didn't ....but I did. She was very considerate and basically did all the work although I reciprocated the following morning. Nice memory if honest.

Mmmmm yes. Just the thought of it gives me an excited kind of frisson.

Wish I'd had the courage to go for it when I was younger. Too old & too married now

There is no harm in it at all. Ive had a few mainly drunk moments over the years and no regrets. Im bi but could never see myself dating another female.

My DP is relationship wise heterosexual but sexually bisexual. Is turned on and enjoys fun with others of the same sex but would never have any interest in a relationship with the same sex. There is a difference sometimes between what you want relationship wise and what you enjoy sexually. Don't be fenced in by labels.

We are in a open relationship and enjoy sex with others together and alone. If your not in a relationship, go for it. As Illshowyoumine try fabswingers. If you are in a relationship I can understand this may be problematic. Or if going forward into a future heterosexual relationship you may want to discuss the possibility of still having sex with other women and exploring that side of you.

At the end of the day life is to short not to be totally yourself and enjoy.

I feel the same too!
I'm married with have kids. Never been with another woman though, apart from a few drunken kisses. I enjoy flirting with other women far more than I do men. Wouldn't know where to start to speak to like minded people.

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