We’ve been married nearly 4 years have older children from previous relationships he is 41 I’m 48
We used to have sex 3-4 times a day then it’s gradualky gone down to 1-2 times a week mainly once a week.
He is addicted to work he works 7 days a week 52 weeks the year self employed from home
I’m self employed too.
We always have to slot swx around his work and only between 7am and 12.30 lunch time as he’s too busy or too tired after that.
He most days is too busy to fit sex in.
I’ve explained we will drift apart if he doesn’t see sex as important but he admits he’s addi ted to work.
He’s always had addiction before me he used to be into drugs then alcohol and sha**ing about
I feel very neglected as he doesn’t grasp the fact that I shouldn’t be slotted into his work schedual.
I also do all the housework cooking food shopping decorating DIY and gardening and when his 12 year old daughter stays 3 times a week I do all her washing cooking cleaning too.
He just seems to think money is the most important thing and he has to be working all the time.
I’ve asked him to seek help he said he will when he’s got to a certain amount money saved ???
I said life’s too short it’s not fair on us as a couple or the family unit.