Since having the mirena coil and having it removed in January due to lack of libido I have hardly any libido still!
My partner wants it all the time even in the day when the kids are around downstairs. Which I don’t really agree with as I’m always worried they will have accidents or walk in on us.
We have 4 kids, 2,4,6,8..,, and I’m knackered! What with all the laundry and cleaning and cooking, activities and play dates, even trying to read a book or newspaper is beyond me.
We Don’t get much help from family
When we do have sex it’s great and I think we should have it more often and he makes me climax first all the time, but he wants to go at it for hours, and I’d rather be getting some sleep.
He wants me to talk dirty and do role play which I find difficult due to my rigid strict upbringing where I wasn’t shown much affection . He thinks I don’t fancy him anymore but I do. I just don’t have any sex drive, unless I’ve had a few drinks which I don’t want to do all the time.
We probably have sex once or twice a week on a good patch, sometimes he says it’s been two weeks! I just don’t have time to think about being sexy as I’m always being nagged by the kids or cleaning up after The chaos. I’m just wondering how much sex is normal for most people and am I denying him?