How to ask for more?

[Emojijoji]

Just that really. Have been married for 10 years to a wonderful dh. All very vanilla, sex wise. I'm keen to try some more adventurous stuff, but we never really talk about it.

Anyone else made the same transition?

Why not visit this website: mojoupgrade.com/

You answer questions separately about what desires you may have, and so does your partner. You then get to look together at the things where you overlapped. Things that you liked and were a strict 'no' for your partner are not mentioned, and vice versa. So you only see the areas where you both really want to do, or are prepared to give it a try.

It can be quite fun to find out what your partner of some years has been thinking all this time. For us it resulted in trying light bondage and a whole lot of fun things to try.

Thanks xpc I'll take a look at that. Sounds like a good start!

Definitely going to check that out too