In my face.

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So, I’ve got a bit of an odd question. When my DP thinks I’m getting close to coming he gets into my face and stares at me intently. I think he just likes to watch me orgasm but I’m finding it increasingly off putting.

Like literally I open my eyes and there he is staring at me about two inches away with this really odd look on his face.

What is this about and how do I stop him without offending him or making him feel uncomfortable?

Different position?

Reserve your orgasms for oral sex?
Seriously though that sounds odd & I'd find it massively offputting.

I’m not a huge fan of oral if I’m honest. It’s something I only like occasionally.

If I try to orchestrate it so that we are in a different position, he will move so that he can see my face.

It seems to turn him on. However, it’s just WEIRD. He breathes along with me and the other night I lost it completely and started laughing.

I think I’m just going to have to have a stern word with him, as I’ve already told him that I find it awkward that he stares at me.

Just tell him. You are adults. You find it off putting, it's no biggie. He should be able to handle it

So you’ve told him and he still does it. That’s not ok.

You need to be blunt, and perhaps try and understand what it is that he gets from it. Perhaps there is some sort of compromise somewhere...but I would say he sounds intense!

One of my exes was insanely turned on by women's faces when they orgasmed and his porn of choice was that website where you watch people's faces as they cum - beautifulagony.com or something.

It's definitely a thing, and I think it's OK - whatever tickles your pickle - but he needs to be more covert about it. A conversation is needed.

Talk to him about it, ask him to tell you what it is that turns him on and clearly explain that it makes you feel uncomfortable.

It's cool that he gets turned on by giving you pleasure I think but yeah definitely let him know if it makes you self conscious and he gets too close for comfort!

can't you drag his head over your shoulder and shove it in the pillow? That's what I do

He’s calmed down a bit now. We had a chat but he still continued so every time he got in my face I stopped. He got the message very quickly.