Okay this isn’t about sex exactly but didn’t know quite where to post this. My partner of three months was staying over last weekend, he has a back problem at the mo which means he finds it hard to twist and reach his bottom, this is relevant!
He was also constipated and uncomfortable and he asked me to use my finger and insert it into his anus to try and relieve his constipation as he can’t currently do this himself.
I quite simply was dumbstruck, it isn’t something I have ever thought of as being part of being someone’s girlfriend. I’m nearly 50 and not naive yet this did shock me.
At the time I think he rambled on about it all and I eventually said it’s not something I was comfortable doing. It has made me question if I want to go on seeing him. Apparently according to him I am over reacting and it is probably all to do with sexual abuse I experienced when I was a child.....it isn’t!!
So would this bother you? In my mind it was really overstepping the mark and would have put me the role of a carer to him, rather than his romantic partner. Not what I want!!