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Married 11years. On average that's how long he lasts. 15seconds.

Just needed to vent it.

Tried all sorts to improve it but that's pretty much it. Long foreplay is great but once he has penetrated, it's about 15seconds and it's all over.

Is he a horse?

And then what - does he fall asleep? Is he up for another time later, does he last longer then? During the long 'foreplay', do you come? Does he like oral or last longer that way? What about if penetration happens first and then you do other things?

TBH having had more than one partner who suffered from retarded ejaculation, I would quite like this, it's so unbelievably erotic when a man comes. I can see it's frustrating if PIV sex is what you are looking for.

How often are you having penetrative sex. So,times increasing the frequency may help, but also sometimes long foreplay (for him) may work against you

However, you have my sympathy. I would find it very frustrating as although having him come in me, it is lovely have a fair while of penetration

Is he any better for rounds 2 & 3?

Sorry I'm with Annandale

At least he comes, it's also unbelievably demoralising when they don't ...

Give it 10 mins after he’s had his quick orgasm and then go for round 2.

Could you try withholding penetration for a few weeks? Find other ways to bring you to orgasm first?

What does he think about the situation?

I don't know what it is exactly as the GP said that it's not connected to the weakening of the prostate with ageing, but I have struggled with PE as I've got older. Lovehoney have a number of delay sprays and this oral tablet, I think available on prescription, looks promising: www.risingmaster.com/dapoxetine/

You can get numbing lube - might help perhaps?

Does he wear a condom? If not, that could help, especially one of the extra safe, thicker ones.

Op, does sex happen frequently? sounds like he has some serious performance anxiety and sensitivity issues.

What’s his refractory time? If short enough that you can sustain interest then try round 2.... he could be pleasuring you in that time.

If longer, then he should masterbate more... if he’s knocked one or two out earlier in the day i expect that would delay things.

Have you tried local anaesthetic inside a condom? Or paroxetine from his GP?

Get him to masturbate an hour or two before DTD and it should slow things down a lot especially if he's older