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Hi. Have been searching the site for a similar thread for chat.

Having previously had a 3yr relationship with a woman I am now happily married to a guy. However...my thoughts are now turning to experiencing being with a woman again as it is by far the most sensuous experience...ever!

Anyone want to discuss or chat...anyone else had similar experiences?

Let's hear your thoughts on this!

This is nothing to do with being bisexual; it's a thread about cheating on your husband.

Actually. It has nothing to do with cheating. If you'd read correctly it says that I'm now happily married to a guy.

Just wondered how other women managed to suppress their feelings, that's all.

How judgmental!

A thread about thinking about cheating on your husband then?

my thoughts are now turning to experiencing being with a woman again as it is by far the most sensuous experience...eve

AKA as cheating on your husband? Bring bi sexual is not a license to be unfaithful!

Have you spoken to your husband about your feelings? I wouldn't call myself bi but I definitely have fantasies about being with women that I talk to my DP about and he's encouraged me to seek out those experiences. We then incorporate my experiences into our own sex life, it's great!

he's encouraged me to seek out those experiences

I bet he has bowtieandheels

I get what you mean. I'm the opposite - married to a woman but occasionally crave sex with a man. I'm not going to cheat, it's not about that, but sex with men and women is so different that sometimes you really feel like a bit of the one you haven't got.

When I feel like that I tend to request a bit of rough with a dildo, the closest thing to satisfying it. But it's still not quite the same.

Yeah you totally sound like a bisexual woman who isn't looking for wank material.

TheRoadLessRocky - you totally get what I'm meaning. Thank you 💐

There's no way I would cheat on my husband as he's a decent man & we would see it as cheating regardless of the gender. It's just like you said - when you have one thing it's human nature to also think about the other. For some.

I was looking for advice on how to deal with these feelings.

As for the rest of the posts - mind out of the gutter - advice only please!

I'm confused.

I think I'm going to have a nice cup of tea, tjen come back. After a jolly good wank.

It's something I have thought about quite a bit, I had a couple of flings with girls when I was younger, but nothing since I met my now husband.
I personally fall for a person, whatever their gender, but he happens to be the one I fell for the most.
I have thought about it, but I chose him as my life partner and all the time we're together, it will remain a fantasy/memories.
We were looking at divorce recently for other reasons, but have changed our minds.
If something happens between us, and I moved on, it wouldn't necessarily be with a man, but hopefully that won't be an issue for a very long time.
Anything else would be cheating.
So, in your situation, it's a choice of keeping the urges in or cheating.
Sorry, but that's how it is.