Today's sex...

[callmehannahbaker]

Was strange.

Been with new man a few months, both single parents so only childfree time is during school hours when we both have a day off work.

Today we had sex for the first time in almost 2 weeks. It lasted about 2 minutes. I thought fair enough as it had been a while and he had made me orgasm before piv started.

We then had sex again about half an hour later and this time it lasted about 5 mins-no foreplay but he just managed to hold on for me to finish before he did.

Is it bad to finish so quickly or should I be flattered?!

It sounds like this is unusual - he's lasted longer before, yes? If so maybe he's just coming quicker at the moment. It happens. I dated a guy who lasted a decent amount of time usually but sometimes came really quickly. My organs work the same tbh!

Sorry-yes, he usually lasts longer-especially after the first time.

Well you know hannah, sometimes a lot of guys just can't help themselves and this is especially so when discovering a new partner :)

For a man, physical intimacy involves juggling a lot of balls. He is pleasuring his partner, enjoying the pleasure he receives and also exercising varying levels of psychological and physical control over his orgasm . I have never been hair triggered and often with a new partner, when i begin to know her better and learn her responses, i can synchronise orgasm with her, which is very nice..

Juggling a lot of balls? How many do you have?!! 😂

Some men just cannot last long..... It's not a mystery.

I wouldn't make any judgements based on a single day.
See how things go but you must tell him what he is doing isn't working for you.

Don't get me wrong, he's good the rest of the time!