I am a regular on here but have NCd for this as quite a few people know my usual MN name.
I was just wondering when people started having sex again after they had babies?
My second baby was born by CS 4 months ago and everything healed nicely, no problems at all but me and DH haven't had sex since before DC2 was born and hardly did it while I was PG either.
I was back on the horse after a few weeks after I had DC1 but I just don't feel like it now after DC2.
I am EBFing DC2 whereas I didn't DC1 and I think that is making a difference as I kind of feel like my boobs belong to DC2 at the moment and I don't really know how things would work without boobs in the equation!
I think the combination of BF, lack of sleep (we are both knackered) means it just isn't happening.
DH is fine with it, is taking matters into his own hands as far as I know and has no expectations of me and is happy to take things at my pace. I still absolutely fancy him and there is no problem in our relationship.
Am I weird? Should I be doing it again by now? Should I just neck a glass of wine and give it a go?! 