Help needed please anyone

[seekerseeker]

It's 3 o'clock in the morning and I have come to mumsnet as I don't know what to do.
I've been talking to a guy for some time got on great etc he decided to come and see me on his way home from work tonight we got along fine certain things I asked him he was acting shady but I put it down to nerves. Anyway one thing led to another and half way through sex he jumps up puts his clothes on and makes an excuse and leaves. 5 minutes later he has blocked me on everything. I'm laying here feeling disgusting crying into my pillow I don't have anyone to tell at this time in the morning and I don't want to be judged by close ones I'm not sure what advice I'm looking for but I don't know what to do

I think Manofkent has hit the nail on the head. Sounds like something definitely happened on his end and he copped out.
Truly awful and I'm so sorry OP.

Its not your fault. He is hiding his true intentions/ other relationships as he wanted to be with you but not to get involved in a relationship. You are worthy of a loving partner and i am sure will find someone gorgeous (inside & out) and worthy of your affections. We can not always know others intentions or true self but i certainly dont think you should beat yourself up as you took him as you found him- how were you to know he was not on the level? Arsehole.

What were thd certain thjngs you asked him he was acting shady about ( that you put down to nerves) ?

🌺🌺🌸🌸🌷🌷🌸🌸🌺🌺 The good thing is that now he has closed the page to that chapter of your life you can open the page to the chapter of new loving relationships. He has done you a favour by pissing off away so you are free from arseholes in your life, and free to date someone gorgeous. Xo

Agree with doglikeafox & manofkent, he was behaving suddenly so perhaps suddenly overcome - guilty? or suddenly freaked out emotionally. Whatever, arsehole with capital A