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Only able to orgasm whilst watching porn

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TamaleHot · 05/08/2017 23:02

I am bisexual but only ever slept with men. I can only have an orgasm whilst watching girl-on-girl porn. Is that normal? The thing is, I can't ever see myself actually sleeping with a woman as I wouldn't wanna do anything down there with them. I do enjoy sex with men, but just have never orgasmed.

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talonofthehawk · 05/08/2017 23:03

Well of course it's not normal

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TamaleHot · 05/08/2017 23:09

talonofthehawk So what now?

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TamaleHot · 05/08/2017 23:15

Can anyone help?

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Fuckssakes01 · 05/08/2017 23:15

Sorry Im honestly struggling to understand how you can know you are bisexual if you cant cope with the idea of doing anything 'down there'???? But no, obviously its not usual to only be able to orgasm whilst watching porn of any type and is likely to cause issues for you in sexual relationships in the future

Fuckssakes01 · 05/08/2017 23:16

What help do you want? A hand to get under that bridge??!

Bellabelloo · 05/08/2017 23:20

Have you tried using sex toys with your partners?

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 05/08/2017 23:21

What makes you think you're bi sexual if you've only ever been with men and don't want to be with a woman?

Plenty of women fantasize about girl on girl ,it's not unusual.

Personally I'd ditch the porn but that's up to you ultimately.

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TamaleHot · 05/08/2017 23:32

Fuckssakes01 Lol, I don't know!

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TamaleHot · 05/08/2017 23:35

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen Yeah, I haven't watched it in ages and I have read that it's quite common for straight women to like girl-on-girl scenes. Just when I'm on the verge of having an orgasm, I always end up thinking of men I've been with anyway to reach climax.

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MissBax · 06/08/2017 16:01

I'm.also a bit confused as to how you identify as bi but wouldn't want to be with a woman and have only been with men?
Aside from that, are you having enough foreplay and getting horny enough before penetration? If me and DH just have a quickie, I never come - if we have foreplay and I'm horny enough then the penetration is the final straw if you like.

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TamaleHot · 06/08/2017 17:04

Maybe I'm not bi then? Va-jay-jays are just not something I wanna deal with at all in person. Foreplay needs to be done more I think, yeah.

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flumpybear · 06/08/2017 21:30

Stop trying to label yourself, have sec with people you're attracted to and don't worry if something a bit off centre turns you on, it's normal for many people
Just relax and have some passion and fun 👌🏻😉

AkimboLimbo · 09/08/2017 21:38

You're not bisexual, you just haven't had good sex with a man before.

Swingingsusie · 09/08/2017 21:40

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