Embarrassing sex injury

[DragonsandDungeons]

I was going to NC for this but...

DP and I were having sex. I was in top, which I NEVER do because I find that position at worst painful and at best uncomfortable. I've got a retroverted uterus which I know can cause this.

Tmi following

It was actually okay for once. DP then got carried away and literally threw me into the air, grabbed me and thrusted. There are no words that can convey the vast amount of pain felt. It was on par with my cesarean recovery. I was knocked sick and we had to stop. I couldn't sit down and it felt like my entire vagina went into electric shocks.

For hours after, I felt like I'd been punched in the stomach.

We then tried again when it had stopped hurting and every thrust felt like poking a bruise. Not just inside but my entire body.

DP is wondering what the hell he has done. I'd also quite like to know. I recently had a miscarriage but I know this is nothing to do with that as sex has been fine until this.

Can someone please advise? It was a stupid thing to do, we know that. I've got a TV ultrasound tomorrow and I'm now shitting it. Has any damage been caused?

You don't always take proper safety precautions? Sounds like you are not mature enough to be having sex. As pp said, you need to be prepared to go to the GP for injury before partaking in rough sex. If you're too embarrassed to go to the GP then rough sex isn't for you.

We're in our twenties and parents. I didn't ask for anyone's opinion on whether we should be having sex or what type of sex to have, I asked what injury I'd likely received.

I will go to the doctors if necessary, however I hate speculum examinations because they're always painful. I've never needed a doctor for any other sex injury caused by a partner or toys, therefore I don't think willingness to visit a doctor and rough sex are that related.

Thank you for everyone who's answered properly by the way :)

OP: I imagine its probably related to the retained products. I had +ve pregnancy tests for weeks and weeks after mc and heavy bleeding on and off. Doctor was shit, took them ages to do a D&C. I can imagine if I'd have had rough sex at that time it would have been painful.

I would refrain until you have had the scan.

Hey Dragons hope all went well at your scan.

I have experienced the same (huge partner, like it rough, like to get bounced around and hurt) so no judgement here.

Wondering if it could be endometriosis? Thats what causes my clotty bleeding after hard sex.

I've got retained products.

It's interesting you mention that. They suspected endo when I was very young, but then I had my son and they sort of left it. They now think I've got a damaged tube and they aren't sure why and one of the suggestions was endo (I've never had PID, only had 3 partners, never had an STD so there's no other likely cause)

I feel quite annoyed because I had issues when I was in my teens and got told "go away, if you have problems having kids come back", now I've had a miscarriage and have a weird tube that likely needs removing. Why couldn't they have sorted it earlier?

That's just my angry rant, it's not that relevant to the thread. My injury seems to have healed, thankfully

Gosh, you can just tell the GP what happened. You can also write it down and give him the letter to read if it is difficult for you to say aloud.

Believe me, after picking out glass out of someones anus your story is really mild. Lots of people like rough sex.