My partner and I have been together for 2 years. When we first got together we had sex most days, as you often do in the beginning! But I have always found intercourse a bit uncomfortable. He is I suppose a little larger than average (not massively so) and I have been told during various examinations that I am on the small side down below. I don't remember feeling like this so much with ex partners.
The frequency of our sex has dwindled quite a lot lately and we need to make more of an effort. The thing is, I feel like my sex drive is lower than it used to be when I was younger. I am 34 and have no children but think my sex drive should be higher and I am just wondering if things would be different I felt only pleasure when we have sex. As it is I put up with a certain amount of discomfort.
I feel like there isn't enough room inside me or something! I've read that he could be hitting my cervix but no position is 100% pleasure for me. I was found last year to have a very small amount of endometriosis (which was treated) and had and still have adhesions from my appendix to my bowel. It is possible that this contributes to the way it feels for me but I'm not sure if it's normal for it to feel a bit uncomfortable? I feel like if I didn't experience this I'd want and enjoy sex more!