How do you move on from knowing you've had the best sex of your life

[AnnasBella]

With a previous partner?

I've had a number of sexual relationships since (LT and one night stands) and they haven't come close.

It's a terrible thing to know. To accept you aren't going to have sex like that again.

Has anyone overcome this?

I just try to live in hope that maybe I'll find sex as fulfilling again one day... but to be honest I'm still struggling.

It might be different because I'm still with the partner with whom I had the greatest, most transcendent, most empowering sexual experience I ever had - but their libido dropped away to nothing suddenly, taking with it any interest in the kink that we shared and that had so completed me.

I think you've just got to try to keep going, be optimistic, and accept that sometimes it's just going to hurt a lot.

Never say never. It can happen.

For me it was knowing that Mr great-shag was an absolute arsehole and that no amount of good sex would make up for the fact he was a complete nobber.

You will. I did. There are some very experienced people out there :)

Ok, so maybe not a once in a lifetime kind of thing hopefully.

And yes he was a bit of a nobber so I'll keep that in mind too 😂

If you are single go out and explore!!!

Sex changes over time and with different people and at different ages and stages in your life. There'll be someone out there with a different technique and way of doing things to make you feel God.

My ex always got the end result and knew how to push all the buttons, but as Teabag said, he was an arsehole so it became more difficult to relate the two together.

My new DP is completely different, the first night was so bizzare with him compared to my ex (nothing too kinky but my god the guy is bendy ) that I laughed with joy all the way home.

My ex has really not aged well and looked after himself, so I doubt the good sex would've lasted for eternity.

Not that it matters, I have Mr Bendy Washboard stomach now.

Although what he sees in my beanbag belly I'll never know...

Good not god. Although feeling like God could also work.

I had some amazing sex when I was younger. It's still great but not mind blowing with my now DP, but everything else with him is better, I've never been so happy. I'm glad I got to have that mad sex, but I don't feel sad I don't have it anymore.