Sexy video call

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The guy I'm dating is currently in Aus visiting family, we have a really good sex life and he wants to video call later, kind of phone sex kind of thing.. I have never done this, I'm so nervous like it's the first time in the bedroom again. I will only have just got in from work so it's not too late where he is, so no prep time! Not even time for a wine for a bit of confidence! Any tips to make this sexy??

My honest tip? Don't. You can't guarantee he won't record it and you can't guarantee he won't share it, either with mates or online for the world to see, now or sometime in the future. He'll cope without it. Will you cope if the world and his dog end up seeing a video of you masturbating, or whatever it is he wants you to do?

I agree. Bad idea. One you have no control over.

Eww. No.

Don't do it!

Also, even if you were to do this, why could you not get comfortable and settled after work first?

It sounds odd that you're the one going to all the trouble so as not to inconvenience him with a late night!

Why is it that you're feeling you want to do this, OP?

Anyone who does this sort of thing, has only themselves to blame, when things go tits up.
Don't do it

don't do the video thing. However if on the phone having a general chat and things get saucy then a little MM over the phone doesn't hurt. It can be kinda fun :)

If you're only dating I wouldn't do it. But me and my boyfriend do it when he's working away.
We tend to focus more on our faces and how the others feeling, than actually seeing what we are doing though and I keep some clothing on as I feel more exposed if not, which is silly as he sees me naked plenty!

Maybe start with phone conversations or texting.

People are right to warn you. You're only "dating" this guy. He is one screenshot away from a naked photo of you, and once it exists it never goes away.

No way. You'd have to be crazy to take this risk.