Help! Sex with my period?

[CreamTeaTotty]

I'm seeing my lovely new chap tomorrow. Early days but we had a fantastic time with each other a couple of weeks ago. Not yet in the realms of frank discussions abound bodily functions etc though...

Anyway... my period started a week ago and is dragging on. It's doing that last few days of brown thing. More than spotting but less than a full pad's worth each day.

I think going to have to inform him of this so as not to cause any embarrassment at bedtime. Not sure how or when to approach this.

Advice please :-/

Have a bath rather than a shower before you go out & i don't think there's any need to say anything, he won't notice.

If it's not full on Crime Scene it will be fine. Bath or shower at the last possible minute and it should be ok.

If it is brown today, it will definitely be gone by tomorrow I'd say

It's fine and you don't really need to say anything unless he's got very expensive white sheets in which case you might want to make like Judy Blume's Forever and pop a towel down in case of any stains..but a bit of watery end of period blood isn't going to stain the sheets as much as semen.

As others said, have a bath or a shower before you go round.

I'd also be wanting to be able to be frank with someone I'm being intimate with sexually.
I wouldn't mention it in advance though, but would do so closer to the action so to speak. Maybe a shower together first? So you don't worry about any remnants?

We have "CSS" (crime scene sex) sometimes and just use an extra towel and no digit action! 😊

Totally agree with Dragon that's the best May yo deal with it if you really feel you need to mention it.

Thanks all :D

It's an hour train journey before I arrive at his tomorrow, so I think I'll wear a tampon and pop in the bathroom to whip it out when I first arrive and have a thorough flannel round and hope I'm all clear.

Good grief. OP this is a total non issue. He's a bloke about to get sex with a new girlfriend. I bet you my children he won't even notice, much less care. Mention it sometime between kissing and removing your pants.

Well if you've been seeing each other a few weeks he must know you'll be due a period at some point soon. Personally, I'd just let things happen and say it's not my week for that. He'll either say he's not bothered, or let you do other stuff.
That would be my approach.

OP that last post.of.yours brings a new dimension to the expression 'TMI'

You have to tell him. Not just whip out a tampax and a quick wipe hoping for the best. Not everyone wants to fuck during periods and he should be given that option. He might shrug and say not a problem. He might.
The only deal breaker should be if he starts ranting and raving.

Sex in the shower?

Yeah, I wouldn't just try and get away with it. If you're still together in a month's time, surely you'll have to have the same conversation.
Honestly OP, we've all been there! As have most men, I'd imagine...

Crime scene sex - I'm stealing that one!

Lockedout I still think of 'Ralph' every time we put a towel on the bed for some CSS!

Oh I love a bit of TMI pepper pot x

First night my dp stayed overall dtt and my period decided to come full on. Didn't bother him and we use the phrase massacre! I'd tell him.

Men are all aware of female bodily functions so it shouldn't be a surprise to him. Just mention your period is finishing during a quick snog and say that you are happy to take things further. It's up to him then if he's fine with it or not. Personally I don't mind but I have friends for whom periods are a no go zone.

Your plan is exactly what I'd do - when you're at that stage, I find the tampon sucks you dry for a bit so last minute whip n wipe and job's a good un.

It was FINE!
He didn't give a monkeys :D
And yes the brown streaks were evident...
The man passed!

imagine that, a man not caring about anything because hes getting a shag...

The 2nd time I shagged DP It started off a massive period. I was mortified but he was ok with it. We do it towards the end but not in the middle as I bleed so much