Just that really. OH and I have been together 22 yrs. He was the 3rd guy I'd ever slept with and was more experienced than me. Have 2 kids (7 and 9). We 'd normally have sex maybe twice a week on average. I've always enjoyed it and he's a very considerate partner in that department. In the early days we were a lot more adventurous (like most people I suppose) sex outside, toys, lots of nice underwear)
OH has been on and off a testosterone gel (prescribed by his GP) for the last few years and is now on it for good. This names him far more horny than normal and basically he's like a bloody teenager with a constant hard on.
He says he needs more sex, wants to try spicing things up a bit, would like me to dress up and is always going on about me talking dirty to him during sex. Specifically making up a sexy story. I can talk to him and tell him what I want him to do to me but I feel like a complete title trying to make up a dirty story. Tried a couple of times and he would be like "No say this" or "say that to me" and then I ended up getting defensive because I felt so daft.
I'm actually starting to feels but anxious about sex now, as though he's wanting me to perform. He says that's not the case and he would love to have sex with me every single day and wants it to be as interesting and spontaneous as it used to be.