Massively, crazily horny- anyone else?

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I've NC for this because it's actually not hard to work out who I am from a lot of my previous posts. So best to be on the safe side.

I have a problem and I want to know if others have the same issue.

For about 3 or 4 days a month when I'm ovulating I get ridiculously horny. Like massively horny. Me and DH can have sex three or four times but almost straight away afterwards I'm horny again. I wake up in the morning really wet (sorry, TMI); in the shower I'm imaging DH or someone else coming in for sex; all day at work I'm constantly thinking about sex; over dinner all I can think about is getting to bed to shag; after we've shagged in bed, I get horny again and often fall asleep having sexual fantasies.

I obviously don't get any relief for this horniness at work and sometimes my vagina actually hurts because I'm gagging for it. Like, aches almost.

PLEASE tell me I'm not the only one...

Yep. And we're not really having sex because DP is on antidepressants that make him unable to come. So I get sad about the lack of sex as well as being uncomfortably horny. It's horrible.
Interested in the b vitamin thing, will google that. I'd get a rabbit or similar but tbh I just miss DP and think a rabbit would make me feel sadder.

Wriggler79 if you feel errmm 'physically more comfortable' you might be able to be more sympathetic.

Don't get me wrong, I'm on similar meds myself and understand the reasons. In my previous relationship, I was coerced into sex or sulked at/made to feel bad if I didn't give into ex-H. That's why I'm trying not to make DP responsible for my needs, especially the unreasonable monthly ones!
It's the attention and affection I miss as much as the sex. Maybe a rabbit would take the edge off though.

Wriggler79 I didn't mean to suggest you weren't sympathetic. I just know I get a bit tense when I'm 'up for it'. I use my little bunny boyfriend to take the edge off so I can enjoy my time with DP without being overly goal orientated. If you're not gagging for an orgasm you can focus on the affection.

Ah right, sorry! Thanks for answering. I haven't talked to anyone about it and it helps 😊 tried to talk to DP about it but he can't do much and I feel like I'm putting pressure on him which will make it worse. I'll get myself a little treat this month then, and maybe some B vits in case they take the general neediness and moodiness away!

You're not alone, it gets quite frustrating huh. I'm mid 40s.
Womaniser is fun.

I actually logged on today to post a similar post Op! ( name changed for this!)
I feel like a sex pest Im horny all the time and my husband just isnt that much. He is happy with twice a week and its driving nuts!
I feel like Im putting too much pressure on him, i feel like Im nagging for someone to fancy me its really embarrassing but when I keep quiet I go crazy from the frustration. Im 30 with 2 dc... what to do?

I dont have a toy because I worry it would upset him ..maybe time to change that.

Anyway OP you are not alone and you are normal!

Another sex pest here, first really switched on when i was around 28, am now 40 and its just next level....and basically all month so not just when ovulating, my DP cant believe how huge my appetite is and how often im thinking about it! He is struggling to keep up....
I thought it was quite common for a womans drive to ramp up in her 30s?
And a big fat YES to the Womaniser!

This will be in the Daily Mail tomorrow.

I got the Mirena coil and ever since then I've been insatiable. My DP (who had been in an almost sexless marriage for years before they split) can't get over it (and is completely overjoyed by it!).

This is me! Hit 40, got regular periods again, have 1-2 weeks pre-period of being permanently sex obsessed and even DP's daily assistance just means I want the magic wand ten minutes later. And want it again 10 minutes after that. And then can't sleep which makes me more grouchy...

It's nearly as bad as when I took Provera to help get pregnant, and was desperate to grope everyone on the train to work and had to sit on my hands to control myself.

Evening primrose oil and B vitamins might help a little.

Me too.
During certain times of the month I'm horny a lot

I even wake up in the night because I am orgasming in my sleep.

I get distractedly, painfully horny when ovulating. It makes me feel like I'm high on oestrogen. Can be fun!