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Squirting/gushing, does it really exist ?

55 replies

ovaryhills · 01/01/2017 17:58

Just curious after a conversation with a friend, her partner really likes it but she fakes it! Just pees a bit and he thinks she gushes
I can't for the life of me see how it could be anything other than pee

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BoobleMcB · 02/01/2017 19:03

It's not wee! And yes it does exist, clearly lol

BrianCoxWithBellsOn · 02/01/2017 20:37

There may be wee in it but it's not wee. I know, I've done erm tests to determine this!

I was once told by someone who had never had this happen, but had read the one scientific study that was done (and is referred to above) that I was in denial because of the embarrassment of pissing myself.

I didn't argue the point, just basked in the smug wetness of my varied orgasmic abilities Wink

squirtymacsquirtface · 04/01/2017 08:56

I'm pretty interested in this because I think it happened to me for the 1st time ever recently (in my 40s)

Was having ONS with shit hot French guy (not a regular occurrence BTW, recently came out of LTR) and he was fingering me most enthusiastically, it felt amazing and all of a sudden there was a gush of fluid. I was really embarrassed thinking I'd wet myself but he was very pleased. Communication was an issue due to language barrier but he explained squirting to me and seemed very amused that this was my 'premier fois'

I did some googling about it later and still unsure

Reasons it might be wee: pelvic floor not as good post DC and have been known to leak eg if trampolining (although never during sex), since the ONS was unplanned I had been drinking and hadn't emptied my bladder prior, it was quite a lot of liquid

Reasons it might be squirting: it definitely didn't smell of wee even the next morning, he was stimulating my g spot at the time and Google suggests this is how to make it happen, he seemed pretty pleased which I don't suppose you would be if someone weed on your hand!

I am just going with the squirting idea because the idea that I urinated on a shit hot French guy is too embarrassing to think about and would ruin what is otherwise rather a nice memory.

squirtymacsquirtface · 04/01/2017 08:57

(Boy am I glad that the name change worked there)

Gallavich · 04/01/2017 10:44

the idea that I urinated on a shit hot French guy is too embarrassing to think about

Grin Sounds like what happened to me. Don't worry, you didn't piss on a French guy
tb · 04/01/2017 17:46

Apparently, it's similar to prostate fluid.

There was a TV programme where a woman masturbated to orgasm, and samples of the fluid were taken and analysed.

Must be over 10 years ago, I think.

Guavaf1sh · 06/01/2017 23:59

It's definitely urine. There is simply and obviously no other structure in the pelvis that can contain that volume of fluid. All tests say it is urine.

Ehlana · 07/01/2017 20:03

It's definitely not wee, it tastes sweet and it's rather pleasant!

There are numerous theories on where it comes from, studies seem to suggest it is stored in the skene glands, these are located above the g spot and top wall of the vagina. This is one of the reasons why constant two finger pressure on the g spot in a "come hither" motion is the best way to make a woman squirt/gush. Pressure has to be very firm!

We've found a lot of squirting and gushing has emotional factors too. You have to be completely relaxed and comfortable. We found a blindfold was e until we needed to enable it to happen.

FannyWisdom · 07/01/2017 20:08

It isn't urine.
I could do it easy with exDP but can't alone.

Glad really saves on mess.

Proseccopanda · 07/01/2017 20:15

Guavaf1sh, have you ever squirted/gushed?

Gallavich · 07/01/2017 20:20

There is no way it can be urine. TMI maybe but when it happened to me I was young and gross and I just flipped the duvet over and slept in it Grin I sniffed it a good few hours later and if it was urine it would have had a smell. This smelt just like the fluid that comes out in small quantities when I'm turned on. Neutral and slightly sweet.

OneWithTheForce · 07/01/2017 20:26

I always thought it was urine.... before it ever happened to me. Now it has i really don't think it is. No smell of urine at all even when my knickers were left unwashed overnight. The first time it happened I was mortified and apologised to my then boyfriend. He found this hilarious that I was so embarrassed. I quickly got over it Grin

OneWithTheForce · 07/01/2017 20:27

And how fucking depressing is it that it's 2017 and we don't know what this is coming from our bodies.

Guavaf1sh · 07/01/2017 20:58

Not sure if this will work as I'm pretty useless with technology:

www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.newscientist.com/article/dn26772-female-ejaculation-comes-in-two-forms-scientists-find/amp/?client=safari

It's a new scientist article - it's either all urine or almost entirely urine

Proseccopanda · 07/01/2017 21:00

But have you ever actually done it Guavaf1sh?

Guavaf1sh · 07/01/2017 21:06

No, as I have quite good bladder control. For now at least!

Tescotwister · 07/01/2017 21:06

No personal experience but remember eyes being opened seeing it on Eurotrash (!) and the women were painting or some such with what they produced...

gillybeanz · 07/01/2017 21:06

i used to squirt before having the dc too.
there's a guy who youtubes who tells you what to do as a man to get your partner to squirt, he doesn't tell you ntil you pay him money though Grin
it is definitely a thing though, I can vouch for this.
It's more stimulating the top bit, whatever that's called.

Gallavich · 07/01/2017 21:39

Jaysis guava
We know what peeing feels like Hmm why are you so dismissive of what we are saying?

Proseccopanda · 07/01/2017 21:40

As do I Guavaf1sh, as do I, and it definitely was not urine.

Whoamicosichangedmynameagain · 08/01/2017 09:45

Guava you can believe what you like. I am off to have a big Sunday morning gushy orgasm - TMI?

Since accepting my gushy friend and not worrying what exactly it is my orgasms are sooooooooo much better.

You know Guava if you chilled a bit you might find yourself having gushtastic orgasms too.Grin

Guavaf1sh · 08/01/2017 15:19

If you enjoy it go for it - I was just saying all the science done on the fluid says it is urine. That's all. I'm sure it is enjoyable so carry on! The question asked what it was and it had been looked at and the conclusions are there to easily find on the internet. I'm not denying anyone any pleasure!

Proseccopanda · 08/01/2017 16:20

But you were suggesting that those of us who have done it, don't have good bladder control Hmm

BackToBasics2 · 12/01/2017 18:10

I've been squirting recently since I got with my new boyfriend. He says when his fingers are inside me stimulating my G spot he can feel fluid like little "jets" running through his fingers. Then when he takes his fingers out he has a little pool of liquid in his hand. He has tasted it (because we are gross) and he said it doesn't taste of anything really, just sweet, and it most definitely isn't urine!

MollyHopps · 12/01/2017 19:06

When you see it in porn it is just piss. Actual gush is viscous and similar in smell and taste to discharge (or no taste or smell at all - we are all different).

So yes it exists, but most visual representations are just women pissing all over the place.

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