Sexting

[christmaspresenter]

In a new-ish relationship and we are apart over Christmas. We've started sexting at night (both staying with family so don't want to be overheard on phone/Skype). I've sent him some shots of me in my underwear and we've been talking about what we'd do to each other. It's the first time I've done anything like this and I'm really enjoying it. Any hints/tips on what I can say or send him? I'm running out of ideas for sexy poses and things to say.

P.s. Although we haven't been together long I have known him for years and totally trust him.

O please.

How old are you.

Just go and look on the web - don't come here looking for wank fodder.

Those photos could end up anywhere - have some sense!

Righto.

If you wouldn't do it in front of him don't do it.

These pics could be anywhere by now.

Best memories are surely when you're there....not pictures.

Online/social media shit- I think it should be banned

How about:

'I'm so desperate for you. So desperate that I've posted for ideas on a parenting website'

If he takes that with good humour, he's a keeper.

You playing with a toy? Or your hand:fingers elsewhere? Im not much help!

This is clearly wank fodder for someone

Nearly everyone is so negative. Oh it's wank fodder they say. Isn't it ment to be wank fodder for the both of you? An expression of sexual desire for each other and lots of fun?

I suppose a lot depends on doing what you are comfortable with it, how much your enjoying it fun and trust. Obviously ask your self what if worse case it did end up on line? How would you feel about that? But really how much sexting and photos end up on line? I would never have done that with any photos/videos of my ex. Dispite what is often depicted on here most men are decent human beings. But of course please consider the worst case scenario.

Just enjoy your self within the realms you are willing to go.

I think HorraceTheOtter has the right idea. Keep it an ongoing drawn out slow release. Rely on words to do the talking. Maybe sometime a picture not neserseraly of you but maybe a item or place. Keep the suspense.

Thanks to those who offered actual advice. Yes, the best memories are when we are together but where is the harm in a little long distance fun when we can't be together?!

As I said in my OP, this is a man I totally trust. Also, the photos are just of me posing in my underwear. Nothing sordid or more revealing than you would see at the beach. I wouldn't be ashamed if anyone else saw them! I think I look pretty good in them and judging by the reaction I got so does he!!

Fair play to you. Its nice to see someone who is happy and confident in their own skin. I always think sexting is a good example of how the brain is the bigest sex organ. No phyical contact yet just the exchange of ideas, imagination and a few cheecky pics can lead to excitment and of course climax if and when you wish. Very handy when distance is a thing. Sorry there wasn't more informative and constructive advise for you.

Agree with 1dad2kids