omg best sex ever just had to talk someone

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So I've been seeing this guy for a few months. We've slept together before obviously but the last two nights have been incredible. I just wanted to scream it from the roof tops. I'm pretty sure the first night I actually blacked out for a second or two from orgasiming that hard 😆😆😆😆. I don't know what's happened to him but he's definately come right out of his shell, he's seemed a bit shy before (kind of I don't really know how to explain it). I mean sex in the past has been good and all but this is a whole new level of amazing.

So how do I keep to the amazing stuff I want to encourage him and let him know just how great it was but I don't know what to say. I mean seriously ladies best sex of my life.

Oh ps I'm not normally pathetic but there something about this guy that makes me all nervous in a really GOOD way. I'm normally really confident and know just the right thing to say but I just feel a bit out of my depth at the way I'm feeling (god I sound like a teenager - I'm definately not a giddy teenager you'd think it know better)

Well done you

Great sex is definitely something to celebrate!

Well I'm definately celebrating. Tbh I was feeling a bit sad about the sex side, it was nice but kittens are nice. Everything else was going great but it was sort of a bit of a let down. I don't know maybe we were both in the exploring phase. It was really feeling kind of awkward and clumsy. This was really unexpectedly wonderful. i really really like this guy!!!!

What did he do op??

What you want all the ins and outs? and .

just what was different compared to other partners!! To make it so amazing!!

I'm it wasn't so much what he did but how he did it (god that sounds trite). Tbh I've had some problems in the past with sexual assult and violent partners sex has always sort of either felt like a chore or like work. This way amazing earth shattering fun. It was like he actually wanted to have sex with me not use my body. That sounds awful right? Um I suppose it was just like he gets me and outs my needs first (that still sounds bad ) oh I don't know what I want to say really. It was just amazing 😆

It also takes a while, months, mostly years, to get to know someone's body intimately. To know just what to do, give to each and this knowledge enhances the experience.

Sleeping tiger yes that's definately true. Guess he's a quick learner then 😉

This made me smile good for you op it is something to celebrate, hope it stays this good for you.

Have you told him how amazing it was? Probably a good start if you want him to do it again...

Happy for you op! That's brilliant.

Tell him! His confidence will go up even more!! Talk about it outside of the bedroom and let him know what works for you so well. Being able to speak frankly about sex will really help your relationship long term.

Send him a text that says something like "Just wanted to let you know I can't stop thinking about last night" and add a load of hearts, kisses, and winky tongues.

He'll get the message!

Notthefordtype - that's a great idea thanks. I don't get it normally I don't have any trouble being flirty or sexually assertive but this guy has me off balance - in a very good way.

I'm miserable today, I have to go back to work and won't see him again untill next month 😭. I know I'm pathetic, I know we speak on the phone everyday and send countless texts etc but it's not the same. I miss being around him 😭😭😭😭😭. Putting a brave face on it as I don't want to be needy etc but I'm still really miserable

Jealous!!!!!! I adore great sex and haven't had any for waaaay too long. It really is a great feeling when everything 'clicks', really happy for you

It's been a long time for me to foslady, and your right of so good when it clicks. Say at the airport waiting for my flight

Ooooh. You're a lucky girl, OP!

Praise him quickly for the love of God, it's good for them, he will want to please you even more. I'm so happy for you, your getting to know each other, that's fantastic, you go girl. Sad you won't see him for another month thought. Oh well, it will be worth the wait by the sounds of it. Enjoy the ride.

Well ladies I've praised him and god! I'm still hot just thinking about it!

Leaveittothediva it's one amazing ride 😉.

Yes it really sad that I won't see him for a whole month 😭😭😭but if it's going to be like this week I can hold out. Id probably never recover if we saw each other all the time 😆.

Just wish I could really work out how to blow his mind back. It's getting easier to know what he really gets him off. Since I encouraged him to be a bit more vocal (actually I asked if he was enjoying himself at all as he barely made a sound - he was but just shy so we've got past that problem) so now he is making noises (a lot of noises) I know what he likes but he seems be incredibly generous (seems to get off in it actually) so it's sort of hard to focus on him iyswim?

Think next time I may just have to get him to let me lead for a change!