Cock rings

[AmberLynne]

Are they addictive?

DP has started using one and whilst I'm not against them as such, he doesn't seem to want to have sex without one these days.

He says it heightens his orgasm as well as keeping him harder for longer.

Honestly though, I could do with slightly shorter sessions like it was before.

You see, once I've come, I've come and I'm not interested in sex anymore. A kiss and a cuddle definitely but no more pumping.

DP has agreed to limit the cockring usage and he'd never pressure me but I can tell he's a bit disappointed and I feel disappointed for him too. Still, it's not like it's banned from the bedroom. Just more like a treat rather than a staple that's all.

But are cockrings really all that for a man? Is the pleasure really that much more intense?

I've used a couple of vibrating ones (some cheap, one not). They're ok, not amazing or all that imo. I'd use one again but I'm not all that bothered like your DH seems. I suppose it's the same as anything, different for different people

We got one for DP because he was curious to try. Just a plain stretchy one. He is quite well endowed so had heard it prolongs the hardness which can sometimes be a problem for a larger guy.

It really worked well, more for the firmness.

It's better as occasional use though I think, because it's not too healthy to use continuously for prolonged periods....

www.menshealth.com/sex-women/qa-are-cock-rings-safe

I completely understand the single orgasm and it's all over for you feeling, but I do think you need to work together so that you are both enjoying sex to the best for both of you.
It would be pretty crap if he came first then just wanted to roll over and go to sleep.

No useful experience with cock rings. DH has tried them a couple of times but they never really did much for either of us. I can't imagine that using them every time is a good idea.

Thanks for the replies.

Just read the men's health link article - v informative. I'll show it to DP too.

Haha, I don't just roll over once I'm done Akimbo No, he does get to have his orgasm too! Just that the cockring seems to delay to the extent that my body has already started to go into post glow mode plus it can get a bit sore once I'm no longer aroused. Maybe more foreplay for him is the answer.

We've been using the plain stretchy ones like pledge.
Never even tried the vibrating ones. I'm assuming they're good for clitoral stimulation too - maybe we should try them.

I suppose they are ok for a play but i doubt they would do much for me and i dont feel the need to use one. When im erect, im very erect until i orgasm,,simples,, Many men seem to think that sex is some kind of competition where they simply have to hammer away for as long as possible to please their partner but we all know that simply isnt the case..

They may use the ring to suppress orgasm but it is far better to learn to control yourself using your pc muscles than to use artificial means.. just tell him you prefer it without..simples

Yes, the vibrating ones are good too, but it's all just for a giggle, take em or leave em. I doubt if they are addictive as such. Good idea, how you've worked it out.