I posted a while back about having come out of a very long dry spell with OH where I'd lost my libido totally. I got turned on by a random connection with one of his friends at a bawdy show we all went to, and it sent me a bit doolally for a while. I fantasised about a threesome with this guy and OH for ages, and got over my dry spell!
Anyway, it all calmed down - obviously nothing happened with friend - and we are having more sex, but still not as much as OH would like. He is very good at not pressuring me, but I went from 0 to 10 and now hover around 3/4.
Said friend has been round helping with the house again - during the day when he's doing diy with OH I don't find him particularly sexy, but he's been round a few times in the evenings and we're a bit flirty. Nothing behind OH's back or that would make him uncomfortable, he always just laughs at us - he is very unthreatened. I've seen it as a harmless thrill until now.
Friend will never take money for the help he gives us, and so I sometimes get tickets for something and invite him and his girlfriend (who never comes - I've never met her although OH has), I'd texted him to ask him about the tickets and we had a bit of banter. He asked how much they were and I said we wanted to pay for them but he could buy the beers if he wanted to. Then it got a bit weird. He texted back "when I am pissed I am going to snog you".
I am going to be honest whilst hiding behind my anonymous log in, I am really turned on by this. I showed it to OH and laughed it off, texting back that OH wanted to know if he was getting a snog too, but honestly, all the erotic fantasies with this man are back with a vengeance. Despite the flirty banter I've never really thought he fancied me. I'm very overweight and never make much of an effort with my appearance these days, and he's got a girlfriend and I'm married to his good friend. I don't know whether it's banter that unwittingly crossed the line, I don't know whether he meant it as a joke - it wasn't the natural response to the conversation so far.
I feel like a bloody teenager again. Giddy with a crush. Only now this isn't on, is it? Half of me wants to indulge in daydreams about what ifs and half of me realises I need a good slap and to stop the flirting before someone gets hurt.
BTW I don't think OH - even if he ever agreed to a threesome IRL - would want one of his friends as the other person. I've had a MMF threesome years ago and really enjoyed it. OH knows it's a fantasy of mine, but we've never discussed acting it out in RL. I also don't think friend is thinking along the lines of a threesome.
Sorry this is a ridiculous ramble, I've drunk too much wine and thought too much about this all day. It's boosted my confidence but in a dangerous way. I used to love the thrill of illicit ONS in my single days, but have never cheated on anyone myself.