Should I sleep with ex partner?

[SugaredPlumFairy]

Sorry if this is in the wrong thread but felt bit insensitive to post in relationship thread as people are having tough times.

My ex partner and I ended things a few months ago after four years (sadly no children - complete other story!) nothing horrible and we managed to remain friends.

We have had one or close encounters since but stopped before we had sex as we didn't want to complicate things. However, he has taken a new job and is moving to China at the end of the week (been ages in the works)

Do I or do I not have a farewell shag with him before he leaves? I really want to, in reality I might never see him again if he stays for years. Or is this a really bad idea?

Do you really need to ask?

The internet is a great thing, but sometimes I think it has made people forget they have brains that they can use to answer their own questions.

Point taken.

Just concerned might be making bad decision and that it might drag up old feelings. However it also might not.

Thanks ladies.

On reading the thread title - NO

If he's going to China and you might never see him again and you are truly ok with that, go for it! However, you need to ask yourself if you are genuinely prepared for him not being in touch at all once gone. Are you?

Do it

I would
But I don't always make the best decisions when it comes to sex

Male here. I did for old times' sake just before heading to Japan for three years. She (we) ended up with an unintended pregnancy.

Take care!

@ 'male here'

FGS!
Just what response were you expecting op? He's an Ex for a reason!

I would!
Enjoy

Do it. But only if you really, really want to.

Have a cheeky shag before he goes then forget about it and move on with your life

I would.

No, why go back there. He is your ex for a reason

Find some new meat to play with, there are hundreds of men in the world and with the help of the internet you can find one at the click of a button

No he's old news!

Find a few fuck buddy, nice new and exciting Not old and comfy

Depends on how good the Dec was before !
I'd double up on contraception
Been there done that

Yes do it

Typo
"Sex"
Obvs

No, you've already been there and got the tshirt. He is now an ex

Find a exciting new man to have fun with not comfy old slippers

If you want to, why not!
As long as you are sure that it is just a shag and nothing more.
Be careful and have fun.

A little light humor