Fantasising about someone else during sex

[Dornan4]

How bad is it that all I can seem to do at the moment is fantasise about having sex with someone other than my husband?
Going through a rough patch so I assume that's it but is it acceptable to fantasise about someone else? I don't think it will last forever and is just a phase but I can't help feeling guilty about it.
Should I put off sex until I'm over it?

No. I'd crack on. Going by your user name is it possibly Jamie? It's probably just a phase and you're not the first. Don't worry.

I remember DH asking "Who am I tonight?" once when I must have been putting in a bit more effort than usual when we were both knackered and the children were small. Lol.

For all you know your DH is maybe busy thinking of Angelina so no harm done.

Thing is sometimes it can be an actual person I know. What happens if someone I know pops into my head??
(not someone I'm actually at risk of cheating with as I'd never do that having had it done to me)

If someone you know pops into your head then start thinking of Brad Pitt or your favourite pop star instead. Anyone as long as it's not Bieber!

I've never cheated but I've had several very rude dreams over the years about people I know but would never ever go with. It's just your brain processing stuff and it gets a bit muddled up sometimes.

Have you ever worn a blindfold during sex? It really heightens the sensations of touch and feels amazing. It might help you to reconnect by shutting out all other distractions.

That's a good idea.. Ightfield be worth a try as I'd like to spice things up a bit as it's a bit stale since having our daughter almost 3 years ago.
Yes definitely not someone I'd pick to fantasise about. I just appear to feel guilty, like it's cheating or something.

That should have said "might be worth a try"