Sexting - how?

[SextingNoob]

Dp and I are having a bit of a slump in our sex lives. I thought maybe bit of sexting would help but am unsure how to start. We're together pratically all the time as we work together, but on a night i'll usually watch tv upstairs while he's downstairs so this is the only time we could really do it.
I'm unsure how I would start it? Any ideas? What sort of things do you say/recieve to/from your dps?

its all about igninting a little imagination and fantasy. It also depends how far you want to take it.

Quite easy going and light would be something like,

"You know, i'm lying on the bed and i'm thinking about you, your body, feeling your skin on mine"

A bit more explicit,

"I've just slipped on those sexy undies you like and i'm feeling my clit through the fabric, would you like to join me?"

however far you want to go. Start nicely, build it up, get explcit or start explicit. it all depends how you feel.

Something I've done in the past is to just text as a narrative... i.e. you are telling him something that you are fantasising about as if it were a story... Simple lines su occasionallych as "I'm imagining that I've got you tied to the bed and I'm standing over you with a whip in hand" ( guess my fantasies !!! LOL )... And rather than go back and forth, simply tell it and let him react

This works really well with the lady I'm seeing as we're a little distance apart so it keeps the intimacy and anticipation... We both do it, as well as more traditional back and forth stuff...

Go nuts and have fun. Anticipation is one of my favourite aspects of sex... You can even do it while you're at work if you're careful.

Enjoy ! :)

No idea how occasionally got in the middle of "such" there !

Thanks for these. I'm not quite sure how he'll react so need to make sure it's right. (He can be a bit of a prude)

In that case I'd definitely start off slowly and explore different options to find what works for you both... In the past I've had texts that have been very explicit and hardcore and possibly/probably sent to multiple people to just satisfy the senders desire and need, which is a turn off for me or its been sent at the wrong time eg when they know I'm at a funeral (yes really!) I like to be drawn in, be told 'this is what I want to do to you', or I'll say this is what I'm going to do, etc.. It's nice to share your desired fantasies/ situations described in detail and explicit fantasies drawn out over the day. Other times its a quick, dirty text to each other to say I've just come thinking about X, or when we did X...you know your partner, so use your knowledge to draw him in.. There's something that will strike a nerve with him.. perhaps start off with a text in the day, to start the ball rolling and begin the build up.. Talk about something he's said or done to make you feel sexy etc. There's something very sexy and intimate about sharing your fantasies with someone and can be a great way of communicating what you like, what you'd like to explore etc so definitely give it a go.. You'll start to get really turned on when the message bleeps!

How did it go Op? Have you started it yet?

Not yet. I've ordered some sexy lingerie which has just arrived today so might start tomorrow. Our job is pretty physical so finding a time when we're both not knackered is hard lol. Thanks for the replies, I'm thinking of just texting one of my fantasies and see what he comes back with.

You could just text a pic of the new underwear laid out in the bed and be in them when he comes up. Something easy with out having to feel like you sound silly.

Flirty texts throughout the day help I think too. Not just 'bring milk home'

I find sexting hard but flirty banter is easy, he tends to move it on from that later tho and take the lead :)

Have you any examples Fizzy? I've never really flirted (dp my only partner) Ha! I'm an hopeless case

Maybe you need to start it slow, just the odd "really looking forward to getting you naked later" sort of thing so that you both get used to the idea before you start on the narratives.

Or a photo of you in a new bra - sent one to DP yesterday which elicited the response "fucking awesome!"

I'll tell him that I'm going to give him a really long slow blow job etc so that he has something to look forward to. It's nothing overly explicit - I'm rubbish at talking dirty in bed too - it's all pretty basic stuff, but I think with texting you're better off with little and often, so that by the time you see each other you're already in the mood.

"Thinking of what I'm going to do to you later" stuff leaves it to his imagination and isn't too embarrassing!